Lonely but happy i guess.

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I haven't had a woman in over 45 years. It lasted about 5 years and haven't found another girlfriend since. I try not to think about it but the longer I'm alone the worse I feel about myself like I'm worthless and ugly. I tried a few times with my ex landlady but she only wanted me around to help her do things around her house and told me she didn't want to have sex or anything like that. Just friends. So I told her I wanted more than that so she told me to leave and never come back. After that I gave up on finding a woman. I guess I'll die from old age without one. Everyone I know has a wife or girlfriend except me. Oh well.

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  • finn
    7 years ago

    No sex in 45 years? That's a really long time.

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  • JulianLennonIsFit
    7 years ago

    #ForeverSingleMeToo!
    I know the feeling friend :) I am forever with no husband but no point grieving haha X

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  • keru
    7 years ago

    Have self-confidence, maybe? if you really want a woman, you'll need that. Not cocky, do your best, and be passionate. Plus go to the places that really interests you, that's where you can find someone who will likely have a lot in common with you and be loyal to you. Disregard clubs and party places, but who knows.

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  • [Old Memory]
    7 years ago

    Stop measuring your self worth based on what women think of you. Women aren't the ultimate judges of male worth. Women very often fail to see the good in men. There are plenty of kindhearted, intelligent, hardworking guys who are completely ignored by women, and likewise, there are plenty of degenerate pieces of shit who are worshiped by women. A woman's judgment of character is typically very shallow, so it has no actual bearing on your value as a person. Judge yourself based on what you think, not what women think.

    You have to change your perspective. Your current perspective is the one Hollywood shoves down all our throats. The perspective that glorifies romantic relationships and conceals the harsh reality of it all. Stop viewing women as the ultimate and only key to happiness. They aren't.

    The happiest times in my life were when I wanted no personal involvement with women. I've never been able to suppress my sexual desire for women and I've always regularly watched porn, but I've been able to suppress the romantic and emotional side before, and those times were the most productive and carefree of my life. All you need is a reality check. Read some of the fucked up confessions on r/Women. Go out in the real world where women will treat you like shit around every corner. Gain a comprehensive understanding of just how fucked up women are to the core, and this will allow you to be content with being single.

    The last few months I was tricked into caring about women and it's made me quite sad, but a few days ago I reached an epiphany and I'm feeling on top of the world, not giving a single shit about women.

    That being said, there are a few women who are alright, but they're so few and far between that it's a waste of time to attempt to seek them out.

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