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I like to dress in women's cloths and make believe that I truly am a female. I wait until my wife goes to work then fully trans form into a women, dress, nylons, wig etc. I wish that my wife would enjoy it with me. How can I approach her with this.
Stephanie I think it's hot. You go girl! The best way to approach this is to sit down with your wife and explain how it makes you feel when you embrace your female side. People only fear what they don't understand (a bit like Ratman2 who is a repressed masochist with latent homosexual tendencies and needs a damn good caning).
But I digress...
If you explain the process to your wife and demystify the experience she will realize this is something you can share and explore together to further strengthen your marriage. She will have so many questions. Reassure her that you want to share this experience with her and need her help to enjoy it within your marriage.
As you well know it doesn't make you less of a man to embrace your feminine side ;)
I truly believe that life is too short to be unhappy.
I have gone as far to take selfies of myself and store them on my phone to show how I look. I truly feel that I make a good looking female,
I am sure you look beautiful. Hoping that your wife will understand your feelings and your need to have her involved in this aspect of your life. Nothing like a girls afternoon getting dressed up and pampering. Just be totally honest, clarify any doubts, allay the fears she may have. Don't be scared to be honest with her as you say life is way too short not to be your true self :)
Watch a movie with crossdressing and see how she reacts to it you might end up pleasantly surprised or find out its best kept as your secret. But if shes not into it you may want to look for a different situation becos you should live the life that makes you happy.
Your situation is totally normal and very common among guys. But, you are married, and who knows how your wife will react. You may want to see a therapist to help decide how to best approach this situation with her. I also like the advice posted here about watching a movie with cross dressing, or maybe showing some mild interest in a woman's shoe store as you walk by it in the mall. I sure hope your wife will embrace and enjoy your crossdressing.
One thing is for sure, this desire is not something you can turn off or suppress, so you will need to have some sort of discussion with your wife....
I am also a male cross dresser, and what I still after so many years do not understand is how so many people on here and in day 2 day life feel its within the realm of their reality to pass judgment on people who's lives will probably never cross paths. I said before- if you don't like the movie on tv- change the channel, if you hate the song on the radio- turn it off or change station. So many seem to want to nose into other peoples lives, why ? They bored with their situation at home, the man is tired of same shitty excuses for no affection from the wife. Remember - How you treat others has direct bearing on how others treat you in return.," Also " someone can only do to you what you allow them to do"
Be a man because you are one. Females have xx chromosome while men have xy chromosome.