Life problems

Have you ever hated yourself yet at other times can appreciate yourself. Sometimes you feel very happy, but at other times like when you're alone, you're just overwhelmed with extreme guilt and/or regret and loneliness. You think about all the problems you have, but other days, you think of all the great things you have. You compare yourself to others and say that you're worse off than they are whether its financially, socially, etc. and then it changes and you're better. You hate people, but you take it back and say its just a strong dislike. I act a certain way and then sometimes, if I have time, I reflect and think how I would acted differently. How I should of been instead. How I wanted to have been instead. It's like extremities at different times. You know take things for granted, yet other times you appreciate it. You're really confident some days and other days your completely quiet, shy, angry, pissed, etc. You feel so important some times, and other times you feel inferior to friggin' everything. You want to be social, but sometimes you're just anti-social. I have trust issues, but I want to build trust between people. I hate people because I know they will hate me, but I also want to like people. I don't know, it's just something that really makes me think about who I am as a person, maybe too self-conscious. Yeah...that's the word to sum everything up. Self-conscious. is it normal to feel like this?

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  • ms_funion

    You like snow, but only if it's warm ...

    You like rain, but only if it's dry ...

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  • curiousk

    It's depression sounds fun I know but the first step to helping yourself is recognizing that there is a problem n wat it is . When I was younger I went through the same sort of thing, you need to talk to someone and actually talk , you will feel much better and Then u can work out where to go from there :) xo hang in there

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  • rulerofthenight

    Line*

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  • rulerofthenight

    Sweety you just sound like you have depression. don't let it sit there and menefestitself. it won't go away unless its delt with. Go talk to a councelor, they can help you feel better about yourself and be more optestic. P.S. Beneficialpest.Border Libne Disorder really?

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  • allik_21

    I think god picks the people who are going to have it all and lets the rest suffer

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  • itduz...shut up....

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  • beneficialpest

    Extra Note: you can try reading about Borderline Personality Disorder online..,such as on Wikipedia but I really doubt you will see the accuracy of it, that you will see yourself in that description. Wikipedia quotes the DSM - IV, which is a diagnostic manual for psychologists and psychiatrists, and it describes BPD in such a way that it is very hard to "see" yourself in the diagnosis. If you buy the Dummies book you will understand the disorder very clearly. The book may change your life and I hope it does. Good luck!

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  • beneficialpest

    I would say there is a 98% chance that you have Borderline Personality Disorder, which is a very serious mental illness, but it can be treated and the earlier the better. Buy the book Borderline Personality Disorder for Dummies. Read the whole thing. You will be glad you did, I promise you that. Then make an appointment with a psychologist in your area who has treated this illness. You are not just depressed and you are not just "emo." please get help ok? You will be so glad you did.

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  • Ugh I didnt read it all.
    I read two lines and realised your an emo complaining about how hard life is even though you are just going through everything that everyone else goes through, except you cant handle it.

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