Lesbian lady has a partner but i think she's grooming me! iin?

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So I met this lesbian lady through something i sell via a Facebook page so I don't know her all that well , we do talk for a bit sometimes but I don't personally know her. Over the last few months she's been doing a lot of kind things for me. She offered to help out in paying the electricity bill if we moved in (as heat is required for my business), the other day she said she had something little and sweet for me when she was coming over to buy from me. She ended up giving me chocolates. Also one time, her and her partner went out of their way over the shore with a trailer to pick up a huge stand for me. Is this normal behavior from someone I barely know? She just seems too nice...

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Tealights

7 years ago

There are some red flags there, but it's odd you let it go on for so long. We can help you guess all day, but to truly get some answers, you got to ask them.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  Let it go on for so long? Um , I can't exactly tell her to go away as she's a regular customer of mine. Also, it would be weird to say 'Hey can u please stop doing nice things for me?' If you see what I mean? I just accept and return the favor to make it fair. Thanks for your comment too!
  
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  - Tealights
    
    7 years ago
    
    No problem.
    
    I guess I just find it odd that she knows so much about you enough to offer to pay bills, and surprise you with chocolate and help. Normally, customers are kept on the business side of things, not ever learning anything personal or gaining too much access unless they become an employee or friend. However, this woman is neither of those things to you since you said you hardly know her, yet she continues until her behavior becomes this alarming.
    
    From my perspective, I suspect that you may have been sharing too much information about yourself and business, which isn't necessarily bad, because it's a way to have customers empathize/sympathize with you enough to buy your products; but you may have unknowingly over done it with someone who may have taken it the wrong way.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      7 years ago
      
      I see your point! Hmm I guess she could be classed as a friend then since we do text but its almost always revolved on our pets as I sell food for them. We are friendly in that sense. I do try to keep it professional with people but I find it hard sometimes because I may be talking to someone via text for example about their pet and the convo can lead on to something else. Its simply just my nievity I guess, in the way that I'll reciporate and carry the conversation on . I probably should stop being so friendly and stop asking questions because I seem to always be accidentally crossing the line!
      
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Ellenna

7 years ago

Maybe they BOTH like you (half your luck if so) ........ have fun if that's what you want, if not maybe you'll have to wait & see if there's an overt approach you can kindly refuse

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  Eh, I'm not interested in anything like an orgy ! I have been keen on the idea of trying things with a chick but these aren't my type, I was just curious actually.
  
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  - Ellenna
    
    7 years ago
    
    Well then, just enjoy the friendship. You have types you're interested in???? How weird
    
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      7 years ago
      
      How's that weird? Sarcasm? Almost everyone has a type! Eg- Some are attracted to more slender people than more heavily built .
      
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      - Ellenna
        
        7 years ago
        
        People aren't "types" but if you want to see others in that superficial way that's up to you.
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        7 years ago
        
        Yes, we all have our personal preference to some degree! Doesn't mean we exclude certain people, just means we aren't initially attracted to them physically. Some guys prefer bigger woman over slim girls for example, doesn't mean that they would never fall for a skinny girl though. Just means its unlikely they'll become sexually involved with someone of that body type.
        I am not superficial because I tend to feel things for someone when I get to know their personality but I also have to have some degree of physical attraction or otherwise they would just be classed as a friend .
        
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Terence_the_viking

7 years ago

I hate those kinds of lesbians/gays

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pixiecutlover

7 years ago

No,I'd say that's kind of weird, being a lesbian is bizarre kink in it's self.

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Avant-Garde

7 years ago

I generally prefer to see the good in people. However, in the times we're living in, unfortunately, there are people out there whose 'kindness' often comes with strings attached. This is certainly not always the case, but you have keep aware of such possibilities in the back of your mind. This particular situation sounds shady to me. You hardly know her, or her lady, and already they seem more than willing to climb mountains for you and give you chocolates. Go with your gut. If I didn't know any better, I'd think that they were trying to groom you sexually. If this truly is the case, they may try to use their 'good favors' towards you as a form of leverage. Stay on your toes.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  Thanks for your comment ! :)
  Yeah its sad that in today's world people don't usually just do simple acts of kindness for nothing! It even saddens me more that people like these ladies who are like acquaintances, go out of their way for me when I've had super close friends who have never made an effort like this!
  I am making sure that when ever this lady does a kind gesture, that I somehow pay it back in an equal mannor as so in her mind, I don't 'owe' her anything .
  
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mypenisinyourmouth

7 years ago

Friendly lesbians? Impossible

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