Lazy sister

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I got a sister is around 20 and doesn't work nor bother to find work.

She doesn't even do housework or barely does it properly, she cooks the same sh*t, doesn't even clean up her room even don't even bath daily and just sits there all day texting or watching television all day.

Once I even confronted her about it infornt of my parents - she just screamed "she doesn't care". My mom doesn't want to confront her because she is scared that she would fun away and my dad will become worried and be driven to sickness again.

What the hell do I do?

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  • NeoFalcon
    15 years ago

    Kick her ass - simple.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    This sounds just like my mom and in all honesty, just accept that she is a lost cause and move on. Don't let her incompetence in living ruin your life, you deserve better than that. It is sad though as you watch this person getting older but remember at the end of her life and even now in hindsight, she has nothing and that in itself is truly sad.

    You can't fix this person so please don't waste time like I have to even continue trying, she is a lost cause.

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  • snakechik22
    15 years ago

    wow she is my twin.. i thought this was my brother writing this story until the end cuz hes never said anything to me about it.. but im super depressed i didnt kno thats what was causing me to be like this tho.. i thought i was a lazy piece of shit and get more depressed if ppl say im lazy.. so ya i guess she is so try and help her not make her feel worse ur just bein an ass and thats not helping one bit.. try asking how her day was not yelling that she is lazy...

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  • heidi12345678
    15 years ago

    she's probably depressed. dont call her "lazy." thats mean, and she could be going through alot of shit for all you know.

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  • [Old Memory]
    15 years ago

    i agree with pretentiouscandy, she seems depressed. that goes way beyond "lazy". she needs some type of help.

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  • Antonio2017
    7 years ago

    Talk to her nicely to help you ,she will then srart to chat with her about any topic in life ،you can be who to lead and dominate afterward

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  • BrightEyes
    14 years ago

    Lazy asses should be called out as such. And I fail to see what this has to do with misogyny. Why can't we just have calm, intricate discussion?

    To OP: I'm sorry but I don't see anything you can do for your sister other than try to motivate her to stop mooching. You say she is not working nor looking for work - I would find this acceptable if she were in school or disabled in some way. You did not state this.

    Your parents don't want to drive her away but I doubt she'd go anywhere beyond the front lawn if she is truly so incapable. Talk to your parents on your own and outline what you think is wrong with this situation. Assert your views clearly and calmly and you will be on your way to a solution.

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  • HarshbutTrue
    14 years ago

    Bud shut the fuck up man you bash more than anyone on this site, and im about to take that honor from you

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  • BlackHole
    14 years ago

    my sister has m level of mental retardation and does the same thing. But that doesn't mean much, when i was struggling with a few things in life i shut down like that as well. It's a coping mechanism, she is/was retreating to a different reality. Perhaps find out what's wrong.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Maybe stop judging her. You are not helping by doing so. Find ways of expressing your concern without getting frustrated and annoying, putting her down, yelling at her, expecting her to be your maid and so on.

    If you can't do that then back off. She's going through an unhappy time.

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    • [Old Memory]
      14 years ago

      Dear author,

      Please ignore this asshole as he just talks out of his ass on most occasions. Yes, I believe you and please take what I said above with a grain of salt, watching family wasting away is tough but you deserve better and

      To Ollie,

      Once again, you talk out of your ass to bash a serious story. If you are to just bash me, that is fine but who the fuck are you to act like an asshole to everyone else. You truly have no life and your comments are nothing more than a drip of water on a rainy day.

      You are truly a sad person, your comment here just shows this. Why Jen likes you will always be a mystery but I guess trash falls in love with other trash. Have a nice day,

      Bud

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      • tygeronherbed
        14 years ago

        he wasnt bashing the poster, he was giving good advice. he doesnt have to be so hard on his sister, he should be supportive. he should be trying to figure out why shes having trouble rather than "confronting" her with insults and put downs.....

        you are such a fucking chauvinist, woman hater.

        you are the saddest excuse for a person on this website, ollie and jen have a right to stand up to you and your nonsensical, hateful views.

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  • Pretentiouscandy
    15 years ago

    She is probably depressed. she should seek medical help. or maybe you can try to get her to go on walks with you, that could increase her energy and maybe it will get her to want to do other things. Besides that. I don't know.

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  • EccentricWeird
    15 years ago

    First off, it's wise that your mother prevented being funned away... but as for the rest I'm not sure.

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