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My definition of rough is quite tame. No punching or serious injury involved.
| No way! Pain is sad. :( | 0 | |
| Try being falcon punched before you orgasm. This is normal! | 4 | |
| I like some slaps, I guess. Maybe some hair pulling, biting is sexy. | 12 |
Spanking (bottoms, not faces), biting, and hair-pulling is fairly tame. I think you are normal.
I like spanking my gal and pulling her hair, and sometimes light bondage.
It's all totally consensual and she wants it as much as I like giving it, and I relish the red scratches on my back from her dragon claws! Note that the spanking starts softly and doesn't go above her threshold of pain--unless she tells me to--and it proceeds slowly for 10-15 minutes so endorphin floods into her bloodstream, kills the pain (so she wants progressively harder spanks as the minutes pass), and gives her an "endorphin high." This is a "Good Girl Spanking" and is quite a treat for her and for me, and it kicks off a long session of hot sex!
it's normal. Also, your last option made me laugh.
As a matter of fact though, as you are nearing your orgasm, your brain kind of confuses between pain and joy.
When i am really close, i actually like being "hit" in a painful way, like, slap with no holds barred, punch into stomach...
you may really try something a bit heftier shortly before your climax...of course, that can also "ruin" the mood, but trying won't hurt, and maybe simply wait until after your first orgasm-