Last time i wasn't so clear..

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Alright so let's go again.. My boyfriend of ten months started talked to a girl. She asked to havw sex with him and he said, "maybe." We broke up for awhile but I soon forgave him and we are ok again. On another incident waaaayyyy in the beginning of our relationship he started talking to a girl named carson. He called her cute and made a comment about her being naked if they were together (he's dumb) But my self confidence is super low. At first he was the only person that's ever made me feel beautiful but after this stunt I feel like scum on the face the earth. I am the biggest girl he has ever talked to, (I'm 5'5" and 138 lbs). I feel like I have to improve my appearance so he won't stop looking for other girls. He says he can't control himself but he's really trying for me and that he's never loved anyone like this before. I love him way more than he loves me and that's frightening, too. Maybe I'm just in need of ranting but I do just want to know if I'm right for thinking I should change myself.

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  • Light-Yagami
    9 years ago | pl

    He's the one that needs to change and stop making you feel insecure about your appearance! You're actually a normal weight, not that it matters because he shouldn't be judging you based on your weight anyway. Also it sounds like he might cheat on you if he isn't already; he shouldn't be showing interest in other girls. I'd advise that you dump him.

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    • YourNeighborhoodWhiteGuy
      9 years ago

      Maybe if she gave you his name you would write a little note for him...? =D

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  • katelyn3648
    9 years ago

    don't change for no guy that's number one in the girl code book.

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  • Pika-girl
    9 years ago

    Me too. But whatever, all you need to do is have a great personality and go, go, go! And by "go", I mean go away. He shouldn't be like that. You people are in a relationship and now, What the heck?! He makes me angry. Go away, far away from him.

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  • quinderella
    9 years ago

    Just leave him. As cliché as it may sound, he doesn't deserve you. You shouldn't change for a guy. If he really loves you, he won't let you feel that way.

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  • ilovetoiletrolls
    9 years ago

    Lol you're 138 at 5'5 and you're the biggest girl he's ever dates? Sooo he dates anorexics? And just for the sake of letting you know in case you think you're "fat"..If you were actually big, losing 20 pounds shouldn't put you in underweight territory so you're actually more on the slim side than anything.

    But he's a loser and you're being so judgmental over yourself. I bet you're the prettiest he's dated too, he sounds like a psychopathic loser who just wants to have fun. If you want him to be your boyfriend, you're not gonna get it.

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    • beemilla
      9 years ago

      well thank you. i appreciate it.

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  • noid
    9 years ago

    Just leave him.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    Leave him and find yourself a good man that loves you.

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  • pixie_dust
    9 years ago

    OMG gf! What the hell are you doing letting this little bastard do this to your self esteem? I agree with poon jabber that he's most likely already cheating. He's just ugly on the inside and he's already damaged your self confidence. Don't let him to continue damaging you more! You need to not worry about him so much but think about things to do for yourself. Like start working out (not for him, but for YOU.. will help your self esteem to work on you for YOU) If you could fast forward 10 years and look at yourself now with that wisdom you would know this is accurate information. This guy deserves to get raped up the bung hole in prison with no opportunity for parole bcuz he knows he's lowering your self esteem and loves it and doesn't care.

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  • poon_jabber
    9 years ago

    he's a sleazy bastard! I could almost guarantee he's already been cheating more than you know and it has nothing to do with your appearance. he's just a piece of shit that doesn't deserve you.

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