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I am soon going to be the last one single in my family. I feel like a loser, like no one really likes me, and that I will never get married. I've had opportunities in the past that I have passed up, but have not met anyone for years that I am interested in. Has anyone else been through this before?
i'm the only single one in my family too, even my younger brother has a girlfriend. it sucks.
Unfortunately there are elderly people who die without a partner and I do not want to fear that because I will always have myself. Besides, that's less stress to deal with. I love being single because it gives you so much time for yourself and you don't have to worry about one more person. I'm a teenager so nowadays I get to sit back and literally watch other people have troubles in their relationships. I'm just too young to be involved in that. I heard a story of my own mother who is turning 56 that her first heartbreak was with some asshole when they were teenagers in her home country. And then I wrap my head around it and I'm like: it all makes sense. We're too young to be worried about that crap. We have our whole lives to fall in love (whatever the hell that means). For goodness sakes, 50% of marriages fail in divorce. That's got to mean something. Even the successful marriages aren't that awesome. I'll avoid that as much as I can! Let's change "Forever Alone" to "Forever Free".
I was the first sibling to get a girl I had to leave her cause I had to move alone no parents I was 12 and my brother got my ex that I loved be happy my brothers are dicks and my sisters were bitches
me too. i feel horrible. i'm such a wreck and a loser. i'm not even good enough to be gay. not that i could get into it. i must be just awful and negative. oh the misery. now the holidays. oh the worst. everyodys happy. but us right. let's dig a hole.
Been there! But my best advice is don't rush into anything too soon! That will only make things worse for yourself.
I think this is quite normal for you to feel like this. Its human nature to feel like this when you think you have no one, that you will always have no one. But someday, some year, you might meet someone who's nice enough to ease your lonliness.
dont single yourself out. thats the worst thing to do to yourself. its happened of course it has, but dont give up.
I think everyone questions their own self-worth at some point. And it is perfectly normal to fear being alone. What is important is to remember that you are not a "loser". If you've passed on opportunities in the past, make up for it by seeking out new opportunities. It's hard but you have to put yourself out there.