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Or do you think he's just putting that thought in your head with no intentions because he wants you to be with him. If he really means it he would go about doing it the right way....
| No you want a ring or that proposal dosen't mean anything | 48 | |
| Other (Add a comment) | 19 | |
| Yes because you know it's going to come at a later time | 79 |
If you only want the ring go buy one and spare the poor guy a the lifelong torture.
I told my boyfriend that if he tried to give me a diamond ring I would be offended. It's not even my style and I hate rings anyways, they bother my fingers. There are so many other things that you could use that money for... I would rather him buy me a new guitar or something :P
I don't understand why a wedding ring is "supposed to be worth the equivalent of 2 months pay." That is absurd, especially when women are supposed to be the one's who believe it's what is on the inside that counts. Well if they don't give you a ring, or get you a crappy one, what does it matter? I am totally sure that true love equates to far more than any amount of money. So why don't all of the women out there ask themselves WHY they want that expensive crap.
Because it goes about showing you're that important to him. If you don't think you're worth it, he sure as heck won't either, especially when the chemistry winds down.
I agree I'd rather go on a engagement cruise than have a ring!! I'd prbably lose like the rest of my jewelry (lol jk) =)
Look at these stats!? What happened to "true love" isn't that what you ladies want and not a big ass ring? or do you want to have your cake and eat it too....
I want a ring when I GET married if its the proposal I don't care about the ring its more about how he does it, I don't want a 'hey let's get married'. That just seems like he doesn't care. My dad gave my mom a string to tie around her finger when he proposed, I think that's sweet, I don't know why but I do. He did get her a ring later but she still has the string :)
does it really matter? if she needs an expencive ring with a shiny rock on it maybe you shouldnt get maried
I accepted my boyfriends proposal without a ring. :D
The ring isn't important. The love is important.
He loves me and I love him, that's what matters.
YES, because I don't need a marketing gimmick to make up my mind about someone I love.
Yeah. Because if you love each other enough to get married, to spend the rest of your life together, have kids, buy a house, grow old and die as one person, one soul....
Wait, no ring? O M G, no I won't marry you! Gah, what a SCRUB!
Dumb shallow bitches.
I guess the importance of a ring is that it's symbolic and shows other people to back the fuck off. But does it have to be extremely expensive? No.
If the guy proposed without one it wouldn't be reason to reject him.
Depends on whether I think he's the right guy or not. And of course on why he doesn't have a ring.
You think most guys would at least spend money on a ring to prove his sincerity in wanting to marry you; I'd be a bit offended he didn't get a ring, but it's ok, I guess.I'd at least want a handcrafted ring. Like a flower ring. So sweet! :3
Yes, I would. I don't need a ring anyway; especially not such an expensive ring. Rings are uncomfortable.
what if you wanted to propose to your girlfriend, but wanted her to choose the ring? Then you wouldn't have to ring and it seems the best option
ok, my boyfriend handed me a ring without saying the magic words. Maybe I automatically assumed he was proposing. I was in shock and went to bed. Maybe I think I am engaged but he's like "eh...noooo. It was just a gift dumbass" and now he's too afraid to hurt me...oops. I think I'll propose to him later.
Iv had two guys propose with no ring, I had said yes but I never took it seriously which is good cause once I had said yes they never wanted to actually get married. I think the ring is very important (it doesn't have to be a nice $$$ ring either) it shows the man is ready for commitment and isn't bull shittin.
Of course I want a ring
and the dower.
He's got to put some investment in me and show that's he's serious and thinking about the future.
I'm not saying that I'd reject him on the spot. but I'd be offended.
if he doesnt give a ring he probably cant afford one ... so NO , if i wanted a guy to live with and BJ 3 times a day i can get that AND the beautiful things in life ... no need to do it all for some emotion alone.
i totally like the idea of the ring. It doesn't have to be the most expensive. It's the thought that counts. (but expensive is good).
It depends on his circumstances - maybe he can't afford it. I feel anyone who makes an investment of that type on you, is showing you he really cares and is serious about the relationship. It'd be pretty easy to keep you around exclusively without any commitment on his part without. Listen to Beyonce!
well i think its not about the ring. More like the guy is taking care of buisness. Its like forgeting to buy a cake for your 5 years old's birthday. lol