Ladies, what kind of man do you perfer?
| Handsome | 44 | |
| Kind/sweet/soft/warmhearted | 171 | |
| Smart (not geek smart) | 52 | |
| Rich | 40 | |
| Laid-back | 34 | |
| Funny | 88 | |
| muscular | 25 | |
| A bit heavy | 16 | |
| With a beard | 25 |
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[Old Memory]
lol i love how woman pick the ones they say they would like but fail to mention that if they are ugly then the guy has no chance. Dont deny thats how you girls think because nearly all of you say you want a kind loving guy and there are thousands right infront of you but you go running to the arrogant dick heads with the looks.
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bananaface
I think it's stupid to deny that looks aren't an important factor, because it is to everyone; and those girls who you described usually just end up with pathetic lives wondering why all men are shallow dicks, even though it's them who are choosing the men they date!
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lisac1919
its sucks though that good looking people arent as nice as the ugly ones...i think that applys to both men and women
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AB1234
Good looking people are like rich people. They don't HAVE to be nice. People only do what they have to to get ahead. Most, that is.
The dudes I date always ask me why I don't treat 'em like dirt. I tell them it's 'cause I grew up in a household of brothers, and as the only girl I couldn't get away with the crap a lot of the girls I know do.
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AB1234
Dude, I was thinking the SAAAAAAAAME thing, and I'm a chick. All my girlfriends are like, "Where are the trustworthy good guys... FCUK OFF AND DIE, YOU MISERABLE TROLL!!! (to the less than gorgeous guy who just approached them at the party where they're lamenting the lack of good guys on campus)... Why can't I find one guy who won't screw me over?"
And inside my head you can hear my eyes rolling. God. Chicks SAAAAY they want "good guys." But what they never say is that the goodness they're looking for is conditional on the guy ALSO being attractive. I know, I know. Everyone says, "But duuuuh! Of course you have to find someone attractive to like them." Yeah, well there ya have it. There are loads and loads of "good guys" out there, but if they also have to have no more than 6% body fat, be at least 6'1", be in the upper 10% of looks in the population, have at least a bachelor's degree--preferably in pre-med or pre-law or business-but-with-major-family-connections, then what you're actually after is someone who makes your vagina explode AND who happens to be "nice," too.
I call BS on most girls who say what's most important to them is that a dude be nice or good or any similar (hollow) descriptor.
Now let the Internet flaming commence.
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VioletTrees
"Kind" and "loving" aren't the only traits we look for, no, but who are you to decide who's best for women to date? Sounds like Nice Guy Syndrome to me.
Also, lots of unattractive men have girlfriends and wives.
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AB1234
I didn't read anyone "decide" who's best for any woman to date. I did read the OP make an observation and then post a question--which is pretty much the driving force behind this web community.
Nor do I notice any APA designation of NGS.
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[Old Memory]
You are either wanting to talk to me, or you want debates about gender. I think you just want to discuss gender topics, but you seem to be replying to me a lot on different stories, all involving gender, so not sure which one of the two.
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tennisgirl2013
What about handsome, smart, kind/ sweet/ soft/ warmhearted, and funny. Yeah I think that's it.
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[Old Memory]
What about a Handsome, Kind/sweet/soft/warmhearted, Smart, Rich, Laid-back, Funny, Muscular, With a beard guy?
Oh yeah, I was engaged to one but he kept leaving the seat up.
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dasaroba
Honestly, I kind of value smartness a lot. I'm kind of intellectual, and need someone to keep up with me. I'm in high school, so basically everyone is a retard, and it'd be nice to have a relationship with someone smart for a change. The whole kind/soft hearted thing is more important, but intelligence is a close second.
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KokoroComplex
Cute, muscular- but not too muscular, toned, a weird and goofy sense of humor, smart (enough. He doesn't have to be a biomedical engineer, but he has to have common sense and good judgement) kind, nice, sweet, will do anything for me, holds me when I need him, brown hair, at least 5'7"....
You know why my expectations for my ideal guy is so high... -__-? I've never had a boyfriend, lol.
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EbonySheep
Smart. I didn't know that until the night of this anecdote:
It was right after I smoked my first and only joint so I'd have a legitimate opinion on medical marijuana. I was feeling good, and I was hanging out with a guy I was really in to. Then he showed me a short story he wrote. My emotions were a strange mixture of disbelief, astonishment, and outrage: every freaking sentence needed a grammar, spelling, or punctuation correction! After I was through, his paper was as red as a coke can, and I was laughing hysterically at my foolishness for ever being interested in him. I took off on my bike, and we've been just nod-and-wave type friends ever since.Comment Hidden ( show ) -
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Koda
This is the stupidest poll ever. It suggests either that men are only ever one thing or that women should have to choose one good trait and forgo the rest. You also managed to insult probably half the male users here with that "not geek smart" thing, and by excluding gay/bi male votes. Good job...
You also spelled prefer incorrectly, but I'm not petty enough to mention it. (:
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Coolieo
All the really cute or "hot" or really ugly/ugly people or just even natural looking people at my school are mean!!!!! So at my school, it depends on personality... MAN!!!!!! It's harder then at my school because there are a few nice people!
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lisac1919
whos going to choose 'with a beard' instead of 'kind'? any guy can grow a beard. lol
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theabider
WHY don't more people want someone handsome??? That should be first and foremost!!!
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howaminotmyself
ha ha, I totally chose beard- a beard can cover some of the less attractive features and add charm. And it's changeable, how fun!
But really, all but one of these describe my honey. Can you guess which one?
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AB1234
Highest picked category: HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA, HAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!! OMG, my sides hurt from laughing that hard. O...M...F...G!!!!! What a perfect laugh after a long, hard day!
THANK YOU!!!!
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carcinoGeneticist
Why does this specify ladies? There's no real need to restrict participants to only women.
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WishIWasHere
I have all these things except A bit heavy I am not. Nor am I rich. Other than that its me in a nutshell.
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lightanddarkness
If I could, I'd choose to be with a man who is all of the things you mentioned. But that's impossible.
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VioletTrees
Hey, so maybe some of us judge men as humans with a variety of traits and interests that may or may not appeal to us.
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EndlessSuffering
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Ldizzy1234
I like guys that are laid back, know when to get/be serious, but at the same time can make me laugh with his jokes. He's gotta be nice too, honest, he doesn't have to be muscular, at least not too muscular. He needs to be easy to talk to, and actually keeps the conversation going. And I definitely like a guy to make me feel comfortable emotionally, mentally, and physically around him. And a part of him should be sensitive towards others. Thats my perfect type of guy.
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confusedlittlegirl
ummm it depends on the guy.... i dated a guy with a beardish looking thing and i thought it was sexy as hell but he was a country boy. im now dating a black guy in a band and when he doesnt shave its gross...
he must also be super fit and smart and charming(:Comment Hidden ( show ) -
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Funny and caring i think :D
i do care about looks a little i dont want a massive heffa who looks like a little rat but i wouldnt mind a good lookin guy i suppose :LComment Hidden ( show ) -
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chatter289
Hmmmmm I say muscle for me. I think seeing a guy who is very well physically fit shows that not only does he care about his appearance but also that he looks after himself.
I don't mean big headed morans, and trust me uni is full of them. It's very rare that you can find someone who is not big of a douche lol.
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