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yes/no do you think this is a weird way to appraoch the first kiss wit a girl? ive gone about it both ways but i think i like asking first. cos if they say no its less embarrassing than it would be if you leaned in and they were like wtf
is this cute to girls? weird? nothing?
I'm not a lady - but I'll tell you how I've always gone about this. Kissing is all about timing, getting the timing right. You will be comfortable to make that move when it happens because of the silent language of attraction and sexual chemistry. You do need a degree of intuition however.
I think if things are awkward and uncomfortable and you are nervous and don't feel like your advances are being well received, then you should ask.
Sorry to break the gender rules you put on your question.
Yes.i like it when a guy asks because if i dont like them its not as awkward.And if i do like them i think its sweet to ask.But just the first time.
When u have the moment it just happens ,asking gives the easy option out and kinda kills the mood you need to do it..yeah normal still tho
I think it depends. If it's a spontaneous thing where you aren't really in a "kissing" setting (like not on a date) then I think it's sweet if you ask first. But if you're out with a girl and there's the MOMENT happening, asking does kill it. I think you just have to judge the situation to know what's what (but I would prefer to be asked if it was me, honestly).
I suggest you use the kiss test. This comes from http://www.doubleyourdating.com/
So if you're getting on well and you think she's ready to be kissed, go up close so you're in range, and look into her eyes. Look down to her lips, and back to her eyes. If she's still looking, it's a yes!
I still haven't been kissed ever, since I'm in a long distance relationship, but I would like it better if he did it without asking. Dunno why, depends on the person.