Ladies: if you were super attracted to a guy...

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...at what point would you start finding him less attractive?
When he tells you how many sexual partners he's had in the past, which of the numbers below would be too many past partners for you?

I'm a guy and may or may not be curious about what the girls think. 41
1. Even if it's one it's not good because I want a virgin. 14
5 (past) sexual partners. 38
10. Any more than that and ewww. 23
15. That is really pushing it 16
20. That's enough. 7
30. Is the maximum I'd ever be ok with. 6
50. It is a lot but it is not bad for a guy with some experience. 4
100. Everything up to there, he's a stallion, after that it's gross. 3
500. I'd date a porn star but not a gigolo. 3
They could have screwed a 1000 or more people, it is not a turn off. 18
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  • howaminotmyself
    11 years ago

    If all they talked about was sexual conquests, yeah, that would turn me off quick. As well as many other topics. I don't care how cute you are, if everything out of your mouth is ugly, that cute factor fades quickly.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    The first sexual relationship I had was with a 24 year old man who had been with about 70-80 women (he'd lost track of the real number and some of it was drunken). When he told me, before the first time we had sex, I was in awe of the number. And yes, it was true, he was not exaggerating.

    It didn't revolt me, I just had trouble wrapping my brain around the number. I kept imagining all the women in the same room at the same time and it seem like so many. Then he said, "Well, it's not like I fucked them all in the same year!" I think he misinterpreted my silence as judgement. So I explained that I didn't find it off-putting, that I was merely naive that normal people actually would have sex with that many different people (I was only 19 at the time).

    He explained that he'd lost his virginity at a young age (13) since he'd always look older than his real age and started busing tables at a bar when he was only 16 years old. He'd worked at bars for years and when he was single would have sex with a different woman almost weekly. He was extremely attractive too. It made a lot more sense when he explained the circumstances behind the number.

    I was fine with the large number and I never felt like I was being compared to anyone from the past. I was a little concerned about the risk of disease, but we used condoms.

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  • Dizzee
    11 years ago

    I prefer to have a virgin (simply because I'm a virgin too), but probably not more than 10.

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    • Allistalla
      11 years ago

      atleast make sure he has had one or two ex girlfreinds he auctully kissed or he will be reluctant to even hold your hand trust me on that.

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      • Dizzee
        11 years ago

        Uhhhh... I am that person who is reluctant to even hold the other persons hand... so yeah.

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        • Allistalla
          11 years ago

          Im just saying that makes it more frustrating when your both to nervoues and I have had relationships as that and they did not work well as niether took the lead and were both shy.

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          • Dizzee
            11 years ago

            First off... thanks captain obvious (sorry, just had to get that out of the way).

            Second off, was it really necessary to reply four times?

            Also, who says that I even want a boyfriend in the first place? Yeah, I commented on this, but that doesn't mean that I want one right now or have one for that matter. I have no problem dying a virgin and I don't care if I'm alone for the rest of my life either.

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            • shuggy-chan
              11 years ago

              i will not let that happen

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            • [Old Memory]
              11 years ago

              damn strait i never had a lover and i never will they can all go to hell i only care about me good to know im not alone

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        • Allistalla
          11 years ago

          It just makes it alot easier that way. You do not have to take my asvice but either way eventully one of you will have to take the bold card and some women tend to be this wayaswell.

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        • Allistalla
          11 years ago

          often this ends in either a brake up or one has to buck upand start things so it works easier when one is more bold orexpiruenced. So you need a balance I have been there and so have freinds of mine. This go for men and women alike. You do not have tofollowthishowever if you choose a partner equally asclueless one of you will have to take a lead.

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        • Allistalla
          11 years ago

          That is my piont if you are both like that your just gonnasteer at each other frustrated and confused I have been there.

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    11 years ago

    I never really thought about it. It's quite unnecessary for me as I am my boyfriend's bitch, but I don't really tie past sexual partners in with one's personality. But then again, I've never dated a guy with anywhere near 100 conquests.

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  • Renegade216
    11 years ago

    That seems a little like double standards. Most girls sleep with upwards to 20-30+ these days.

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    • Antir0b0t
      11 years ago

      Huh? "Most girls sleep with blah blah 20-30 guys". Lies. You generalized a generalization with a comeback that's generally the same thing you claim to be false.

      ..Generally speaking of course.

      Hee hee.

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  • Shy_Tiger
    11 years ago

    but i would wont a guy with experience.

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  • squirelhunter
    11 years ago

    It normal
    Iv been through the same but I failed that class.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    "1. Even if it's one it's not good because I want a virgin."

    Haha this ones great

    Who wants a virgin guy? They suck at sex so bad it's unbelievable lol, but i guess the same goes for women.

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  • thinkingaboutit
    11 years ago

    Well, him saying he has a girlfriend would totally crap on my parade.

    It depends on who and how he is. If he's 19 with 30+ partners, I start to wonder how he treats women.

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    11 years ago

    I would be shocked if someone I was talking to had 500, let alone over 100 partners. I feel like with numbers like that you must have been working in porn.

    If they had worked in porn, that would be kinda cool. I don't think a number would really make much of a difference as long as they were clean and would still treat me right.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    About 10. Any more than 20-30 and that is crossing into a level of sexual liberal-ness that I am not currently in and I prefer guys who have about the same standards as I do.

    Unless all of the girls were really hot. Then I would ask for an invitation to THAT party. Too bad my husband's Mormon (yeah I know, you'd think it wouldn't matter to a Mormon how many women are in his bed but apparently they stopped that in the 1800's, prudes).

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  • KeddersPrincess
    11 years ago

    Um...I don't think I'd really care as long as he doesn't have STDs.

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