Ladies, if you feel you are

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If you are fresh out of a bitter relationship, you feel like you are a fucked up mess. However there is someone that wants to get to know you, talk, text, etc. How do you feel about a guy or girl that is obviously smitten with you.?
I have a female friend I met a year and half ago. She was in a 5 yr comatose relationship. She feels she's fucked up, I think she's beautiful and great as she is. I don't make personal comments about sex or things like that. But I'm just trying to allow her to see that I do respect her, her decisions, and i will do what I can to help her when she needs or asks. I am 20 yrs older than her. But her ex was a bit younger and never made her feel like she was wanted or appreciated. Is it acceptable to "pursue from a distance ? So to speak ? Do you like that I or hate it, or what ?

Just make sure we can be friends first then go from therr 3
Rather he says nothing 1
Let him say what he feels and just get it out 0
Slow and easy 1
No, really, I'm a mess after the ex fucked me up 1
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  • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
    5 years ago

    Just get a sugar baby that age. I dont think it's easy for old guys to get young girls or every old guy would have one. You need lots of money to attract a young girl.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    So what are you 46? Yea it won't work... In a few years you will be hitten 50 and slowing down, spending time pruning roses and taking heart medication. She has spent over 5 years in boring relation ship so when this guy is gone she is going to want to live her youth again. She will be getting on 30 and speeding up, wanting fun sex and party. Rock n roll son....

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    • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
      5 years ago

      Yeah I agree man. Unless you are a multimillionaire I dont think its realistic for y'all to work...

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      • [Old Memory]
        5 years ago

        Yep. She may want a sugar daddy, but that ain't love.

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  • curious-bunny
    5 years ago

    What's a comatose relastionship?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      It never really was anything positive and fulfilling for her. Plus she told me the other day that he NEVER got her things for bday, Xmas,holidays at all. No card, no "I love you babe" nothing. That sounded pretty comatose to me.

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      • curious-bunny
        5 years ago

        Ooh ok that I understand, yea she needs to leave him, start with friends, don't be a rebound

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    5 years ago

    And of course he's a real piece of work. They have a 4 yes old little girl. He doesn't seem to care enough about her. Well I could talk shit about him all afternoon. But I won't.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    5 years ago

    Gee, some real negative thoughts. No, she is not gonna be 30, she actually just turned 39. There is about 20 yrs +/- difference in our ages. I didn't think I would have to be rich to attract a younger woman. I was kind of going on the concept of treat a woman like she deserves to be. Show her she is appreciated, thought of, and that no matter what happens I would still be happy to ask her about her day. We get along great, and i am treating her with respect and I feel good about how our conversations go. I will just work it out on my own. Thanks for you negative thoughts.

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