Ladies: a guy smokes marijuana habitually. is he dating material?

Pretty much what I expected. Some people just don't understand how much of a joke getting caught with marijuana is.
I understand why a woman might think he's a screw-up, but to be afraid of the consequences of the law is just silly.
To judge someone for using weed is just too easy. It really says nothing about the individual.
I guess I can't take offense to people simply being closed-minded. Fair enough.

Of course I would, I smoke myself. I wouldn't have a problem if the guy did other drugs either, as long as it's not too often or uncontrolled. But when it comes to weed, I'd be okay with my partner smoking daily.

Weed makes men last longer in bed, it makes them more expressive and it's just all around a pretty good drug. If you bar men from your panties because they smoke weed you are doing a great disservice to your vagina.

I'd actually be more comfortable with a person knowing they use/have used drugs, even if it's just weed. Especially if it's weed. my boyfriend smokes just as much as I do, so we get to smoke together which is really nice. I would be put off if a guy didn't like weed.

Why would you people care what others think about the person you like? What if you like him he likes you and everything is fine and then you found out he smokes weed, he suddenly isn't a good guy? Think about it :)

My bf smokes but I smoke, too (but he does it more, obviously).

Is he breaking the law by buying,being in possession of, or using marijuana where he lives? If he is a scofflaw, get rid of him because it is very conceivable that if he is caught by the police and you are with him, you could be arrested too. Personally, I must confess that I found myself smitten with a few guys who disclosed their weed habit after a few dates and I broke it off with them because I do not want people around me who have criminal leanings or criminal intent of any sort. As the saying goes: "You lay down with dogs and you get up with fleas".

I don't view weed as a drug. You just need to find a woman with similar ideals as you. Trust me, there are plenty if girls who smoke pot.

If it was once in a blue moon with close friends or something, I might be ok with it. Same goes for drinking. Since I neither smoke or drink I want to be able to connect on the same level of consciousness with my partner.

I would think that he's not a serious individual, plus it's just a personal turn off, so no for me

you shouldn’t make decisions on things like that. if he's a loving guy who can support you if and when you need it, what difference does his drug use make.if he can function in society and has self-control there is no problem

"I would not enter a relationship with a guy who smokes weed. Period."

Why would I date someone I'd be ashamed to introduce to my family?

UR ALL HATERS!! smoking weed is a lifestyle not a drug... Some of the greatest thinkers in history do drugs. it makes people more creative and has saved lives!!!

I've met few guys who smoek weed daily that AREN'T assholes.i'm not saying their aren't guys out there that aren't,i've just had a lot of bad experiences.

If I was interested in a guy andI found out he smoked weed,I would definately have to take a step back an reevaulate him.See what he's liek when he's high etc.

I wouldn't be with someone who regularly got high on anything. I don't want to be involved in the legal issues that will probably come up and what about a job and future?

I will not hide the possitive or negtive about someone i plan on dating from my father, if i am ashamed to tell my father then boom relationship over. i will not date a pot smoker and most of my friends wont either.

No I'd get sick of the smell. Lol he can put on some sort of cologne or have a mint, but it'll still smell gross to me.

Lol apparently no one else does :p

oh wahh wahh wahh,would you date a guy that took asprin or drank? i love how people think weed is like pcp and it will make you fly off buildings,if you dont smoke weed then we might have a problem

as long as you dont let weed come before necessitys like food rent heat ect then you should be fine so long as your also not a hermit pothead who only wants to sit home and get baked everyday, Im a woman who tokes daily so i have no issue dating a guy who does too so long as he controls it and not vice versa

There's a big difference between alcohol and weed. Not everyone drinks to get drunk. Weed is only taken to make you high.

And the key word is "habitually." If he toked every now and then I wouldn't care but you're saying it's a habit. I wouldn't date and alcoholic and I wouldn't date a full fledged pothead. It comes off as "hey there I really have nothing better to do with my time"

They're butt-heads when they're not on drugs, I wouldn't want to kiss someone with rotten breath and poor dental health, and earning enough finances to support his Weed habits would be a real bitch.

But hey, other than that he'd make a fine catch.

He may be a great guy, but if he needs to smoke every day, why is he doing that? It's probably an escape. Do you want to date someone who is not willing to face reality head on? I heard someone say that a guy who smoked daily, his baby was born unhealthy and deformed. I don't know if this is true, but is this guy also hurting his health?

Bottom line: it depends on what you are looking for in a partner.

If you want someone to get high and party with, by all means go right ahead.

If you want to work toward a long-term relationship with a responsible, hard working partner with an average or better income - look elsewhere.

Even if they were the exceptional "ambitious" weed smoker, there is a high (cool choice of words, huh?) probability of job loss because of drug testing. Not to mention the always present chance of legal trouble and costs.

@ all you people commenting for a woman's point of view, the title says : LADIES

i dont think the poll creater is a girl who found out a guy she likes smokes, IMO it's a guy asking girls what they think of dudes who smoke

Why would another woman want you if you're already with Jane?

absolute 100% DEAL BREAKER. i would never ever date someone who even smoked occasionally

ive read a few places that weed is quite safer, and when u think about it if u include driving as a factor why wouldn't it

oh well i do neither, toxic depressants seem like a bad idea from the start :/

It's a perception thing. Weed is seen as a drug and alcohol often isn't. If you had a glass of wine with dinner, no one would bat an eyelid. But there's really little difference.