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when i talk to peoples, i couldnt answer back like the conversation always end up like 2 or 3 minutes. cuz i dont know wat to say or the things come out of my mouth is stupid and i dont want them to laugh at me and sometime when i answer back, he didnt answers because i was talking so low sounds and fast. everytime this happens makes me so depressed!!!...
You may gain more confidence in your ability to hold an interesting conversation if you read more. It will make you seem more intelligent and informed.
Start reading newspapers, especially local ones. Then add some books; start with ones you think you might actually like, since there's no sense in forcing yourself to read crap you think is boring.
People will almost always think you're a great conversationalist if you ask them a lot of questions about themselves. People are generally narcissistic by nature and love talking about themselves to someone they think is truly listening - especially women. They won't remember exactly what you said, only how you made them feel while they were talking to you.
i just cant be bothered with people, i look like one of the 'cool' people tho and people always ask me why im friends with some people, its just tht i cant be bothered talking and geeky peoplea are easier to get along with coz theyre the same
Yes it is normal!
I don't have exactly the same problem but something similar, my voice sounds as a speak, and when i'm in a conversation i have no problem being in it. But i have problems with the timing, i have absolutely no idea whatsoever, what would be a nice time to ask a question per example, i usually end up asking a question while they are talking to someone else or are busy, and i need to ask my question two times, and especially talking to strangers makes me very nervous, not so much when we already have started talking though.
My tips would be, just talk! When you have already gotten into a conversation it is much more comfortable, get to know people! Talk to some people much, so i wouldn't be so afraid of talking to them, try to do that with everyone you spend time with! :)
Good luck!
It's normal. I had the same problem when I was younger. Try practicing with having normal conversations at bus stops or the corner store or waiting in line or with people on an elevator. Talk about simple things, don't rush into anything personal. You'll start to feel comfortable and it won't hurt to know what's going on out in the world to talk about with other people.
First you're totally normal and lot of people have problems when they talk to strangers
All what you have to do is be confident of yourself
To be confident you should do some practises like reading a pragraph from newspaper and try to talk about that subject with someone
i kinda have the same problem. Im NOT a talkative guy. I only talk when i feel its right. Try to talk louder, and to have more conversations. Talk about your favorite Music, Games, Shoes, anything you like. Those small conversations can lead up to huge things. GOOD LUCK!