Kinda wanna suck a dick right now.

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Okay, here is the deal. I am a 20 year old, male virgin (I have something going with a girl at an upcoming new years party though so lets hope that pans out) I like to think of myself as a straight person. I really only have sexual thoughts about women. When it comes to porn, I stick to the straight stuff. Thing is, recently, I kind of feel like I want to suck a dick. At first I was like "That can't be right, I'm a straight male" but then I got to thinking "Wait, how do I know that if I've never had sex with a girl before?" What if I finally do it and hate it? So this has made me realize that maybe I do have a bit of gay in me. I don't want to do anything else with men like kissing and I definatly don't want anything to do with buttholes (Even with girls. I just think that's too far but I digress) I wouldn't even want to make eye contact. I just want to suck a dick really badly. Like REALLY BADLY. I think about it at work, at home. I stay up at night just thinking about it sometimes. I have tried giving gay porn a try but it just grossed me out to be honest. This is why I feel so uneasy. I don't know why this one aspect of homosexual activity seems so inticing to me. I mean, I guess I'd be okay with being gay if I am. Society is certainly more liberal about that kind of stuff nowadays. Does this make me bi? I am 100% attracted to girls. I've made out with girls and even 2nd based it a little bit and I loved it. It's just this one bit of the male anatomy that I want to embraced passionately with my mouth.

I guess what I am asking for is people's thoughts. I am just super confused right now. Does anyone know if there is a way to get in touch with the dick sucking community? (If that's an actual thing) I just want to try it and get it over with to see if it's what I am into. And I certainly don't want any friends or family to know about this for obvious reasons. I do want to sleep with a girl first though just in case this is all in my head. I can't have sucking a guy's dick be my ONLY sexual experience.

I hope this gets through the flagging process. I really don't mean to be crass or inappropriate but this is really how I feel and I really need advice.

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  • DADNSCAL
    11 years ago

    I'm a bi male and wouldn't want to be anything else. I'm married(yes, to a woman) with 2 kids. She knows and we checkout guys together. She even has met 1 of my boyfriends from my single days. Sucking dick is FUN, and you should try it. I started with a friend in jr. high, and was hooked.

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    It's a part of male sexuality that often gets hidden because of all the negative connotations we put on being gay, as if it's some kind of bad thing. I have said here for years that our terms for our sexuality are too narrow and that there are a great number of men out there who aren't gay (they don't want to kiss men, be in love with them, or marry them) but would be interested in either sucking a guy's cock, having theirs sucked by a guy, or both.

    When you say you wouldn't want friends and family to know about it for obvious reasons, that kind of feeds into the whole issue of it being bad or wrong. I mean, would you be concerned that your friends knew you'd tried oral sex with a female? It's really no different. What I do wonder, though, is whether it being seen as "wrong" makes it more exciting. Whether it's a taboo thing for men as opposed to something that would be of genuine interest if it was seen with disinterest.

    Either way, if you want to know what it's like, there are ways and means of meeting people who'd enjoy letting you do what you need to do. But be aware that people who use these channels will often use these channels frequently and while they may be sensible about safe sex they may also not be and - if they're not - the increased number of partners they've had also puts you at risk.

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    • DealinBurgers
      11 years ago

      Sorry about that. I should have clarified what I meant by "obvious reasons". I don't think there is anything wrong with being gay or bi or what have you. I have just seen first hand how judgemental people can be. Even people who are close to you. I know for sure it would mess up a lot of things if people found out about this.

      But you brought up another concern of mine. If someone is just going to let me blow them, chances are they would be that open to other strangers doing it so sexually transmitted diseases are all too possible. I just wish there could be a safe environment to try this stuff. It being fairly anonymous would be preferable as well.

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      • quentari
        11 years ago

        you would have to do it while they are wearing a condom, but some guys are really against condoms even if they're being used to prevent STD's, and it'll be totally different for you, sucking on a dick and sucking on a condom are quite different (unless your curiosity is more about the guys reaction than sucking the dick)

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        • DealinBurgers
          11 years ago

          I'm not sure I'd be too keen on the taste or feel of latex. I would much rather do it raw cause' I am definately more interested in the actual dick sucking than the reaction. I guess I will just have to try to find someone who's into that stuff that I can simply trust. I think another thing holding me back is what if I'm wrong and I find out I hate sucking dicks when it happens? Then I have to live the rest of my life as a straight man who has had a dick in his mouth. I don't know. I guess I will just have to suck it up (pun intended) and make a decision already. Before I know it, I'll be out of my sexual prime before I've even started.

          Thanks for your responses by the way. They really do help. It's nice to get this off my chest even though this is anonymous.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    Maybe you're just horny? People want to, and do do weird things cause they're super horny. I know someone who went through something like that. He now says things like "I can't beleive I ever thought that, glad I didn't actually do anything." I don't think there's anything wrong with it either way. Being bi is pretty normal. I agree with you though. Be with a girl first and hold off on the blow jobs. Migth help you out in the long run.

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  • Energy
    11 years ago

    Go for it. I don't see anything wrong with it.

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  • Carlton03
    7 years ago

    I might regret this but if anyone wants to trade dick pics and you have a nice looking dick let me know.... I have been told my dick is nice looking if that helps.. I have a semi natural curve on mine haha.....

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    • downtownlickin47
      7 years ago

      I would if you entend to grin an bare it someday.but photo swap is a kids thing...jollie jollies...so your call flop an slurp or pretend.

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  • josh12dicks
    9 years ago

    Dude sucking Dick really is amazing I'd rether suck Dick any day then lick some nasty girls pussy. I think pussys are just fucking nasty but on the other hand dicks are amazing!!! You should also try getting fucked up the ass I bet you your like it everytime I've been fucked up the ass I've fult like I was In heaven it's amazing

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    • [email protected]
      8 years ago

      you can suck my dick as long as i can suck yours I really need a dick to suck right now, I just love to suck dick. lets exchange pics and chat sometime and maybe we can eventually meet up. Id love to see some pics of you and pics of your dick, how big is your dick anyway?

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  • Anonymous944
    11 years ago

    I'll suck any one of UR dicks for free aslong as u let me swallow it'll be free

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    • josh12dicks
      9 years ago

      You could suck my Dick any day as long as I can suck yours to

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      • [email protected]
        8 years ago

        Im the same way I will let a guy suck my Dick but he has to let me suck his too

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    • [email protected]
      8 years ago

      sounds good lets chat sometime I really need a dick to suck right now.

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  • MmmHmm
    11 years ago

    I've been going through similar feelings lately, too. I'm 18 and haven't even kissed a girl, but I'm attracted only to women. However, I really wouldn't mind sucking my best friend's dick if he wanted me to just because I want to try it, want him to feel good, and because I actually do find him attractive. I'm like you, though, in that I don't want to kiss a guy or have sex. I don't even want a relationship with a guy. But I certainly wouldn't mind doing that one thing for a friend just for fun. I don't think it'll happen, but it's exciting to think about!

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    • Carlton03
      7 years ago

      Omg I am exactly like You and the main poster, I hate kissing, I don't wanna kiss a guy and definetely DONT want it up the arse would imagine it being painful and just weird and kind of yuck but there is just something about he way a long hard dick looks that turns me on I guess, I also get really horny when I see a killer female body perfect tits etc..... And get really hard but yeah just want to try sucking a cock so bad, one of those good looking ones you see in the pornos some guys have really perfect looking penises.

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    • [email protected]
      8 years ago

      I would like too to I love women, but need a dick to suck too.

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  • teendicksuckers
    6 years ago

    I really need a dick to suck too

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  • downtownlickin47
    7 years ago

    Well nothing like a good woman.fucking till ya cant walk....but as time an sex goes on a woman dont have a dick.not a real one.the three sums i have enjoyed were always the pleasure of the woman.an seemed she or they enjoyed seeing thier man sucking me.got them hot.most the time the rule was the cum was hers an no cum exvept in her cunt.well gotta tell ya it felt same when she/they sucked as whe he/they so go for it just besafe.an sure who you pit in your mouth.

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  • [email protected]
    8 years ago

    Once you start sucking dick youll love it and wish you had started sucking dick years ago

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    • Carlton03
      7 years ago

      Hmmmmm

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  • [email protected]
    8 years ago

    you can suck my dick as long as i can suck yours I really need a dick to suck right now, I just love to suck dick

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  • Luisgon16510
    9 years ago

    And fuck you

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  • Luisgon16510
    9 years ago

    I want to suck your dick

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  • bfus
    9 years ago

    I'm the same way. I'm attracted to the sexual act, not really the guy. I wouldn't get hung up on whether or not you have sex with a girl first or not, it really isn't a big deal.

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