Kids getting into relationships...

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It perplexes me that kids get into relationships and get hurt instead of enjoying their childhood. Childhood and adolescent relationships are not even true because they don't know what they truly want. However with kids it's worse because they could have a more simpler life and not dealing with relationships and heart breaks. I know I did the right thing and waited until I was older. Maybe I am oldschool or just think differently about this topic. Please note that I am aware that relationships are not the only thing ruining childhoods

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  • sandnigga
    7 years ago

    Has it ever come across to people that just simply age is a artificial way of looking at this?

    It is more the maturity of the person that makes them ready for a relationship.

    Age is just a way of measuring time. Some people use their time differently than others.

    And we learn from our mistakes. We all have to experience being in a relationship at one point or another. Having it earlier just means you could learn things earlier.

    What can make a better relationship with someone is learning from being in a relationship. How do you learn if you dont try?

    I mean yea if your 7 years old, then a relationship will most likely just be for pretend. But a person who is 13 can legitimately have a real relationship.

    Age just depends on each person. Each person is different. This is why you shouldnt just put on a age for everybody. Just like kids go through puberty at different ages.

    So I guess it would depend on what age range your talking about.

    A relationship can be broken up into the sexual readiness, and mental readiness. (Whether or not your serious about a relationship)

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    • felixy
      7 years ago

      If you're suggesting we lower the age of consent then you're confusing physical maturity (which is faster than it's been in the past) with mental maturity (which hasn't changed). Besides, thought a Trump guy like yourself would be more woke'd about Podesta's pizza.

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      • sandnigga
        7 years ago

        Podesta pizza is a WHOLE different story than what we're talking about.

        When it comes to kids, it isnt just black and white like alot of people like to make it.

        YES having sex with a 7 year old is bad. Because the body isnt physically ready or mentally.

        But you cant tell me having sex with a 16 year old is bad, when alot of 16 year old girls are BOTH physically ready AND mentally ready.

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      • sandnigga
        7 years ago

        we SHOULD lower the age of consent to 16! Cause its ridiculous how people get in trouble for having sex when the person's body is PERFECTLY ready, and the courts dont want to admit it, because their stuck in their own little mind that thinks 16 year olds, somehow cant physically have sex

        WHEN THEY ARE HAVING SEX! Just fine too!

        Its nonsense. Its like locking up people who smoke weed, and you still have a few people around going "ohhhh weed is bad for you! but you can drink alcohol which kills people!"

        Its ridiculous!

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        • BeforeDawn
          7 years ago

          Michigan has the age of concent at 16

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          • sandnigga
            7 years ago

            kk

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        • felixy
          7 years ago

          Just to clarify: the age of consent is 16 for alot of states and in European countries as well. There are middleschool girls with beach ball tits, I don't think anyone is arguing physical readiness. Mental readiness and maturity, however, is a valid concern. Especially when there is room for exploitation.

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          • sandnigga
            7 years ago

            oh sorry then, i meant just lower the legal age down to 16

            mental readiness just depends on the person

            im sure alot of 16 year olds are ready

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  • Tealights
    7 years ago

    To put it simply, if it's an autual serious relationship and not them playing House, then it basically comes down to there are children from good homes with responsible parent(s), and children with far less that can range from small to severe.

    Typically, children cursing, acting sexual, and more, most likely learned it from unsupervised television/internet use, or from a perverted family member or friends. Without parents there to guide them, they just end up raising themselves and growing up too fast.

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