Kicking myself i didn't get with him while i had the chance

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There was a guy who was into me a while ago. Like the idiot I am, I pushed him away. I guess I felt like I wasn't ready, or I didn't deserve him.

I'd been thinking about him a lot lately, so I tried to contact him... but now he told me he's with someone else earlier today.

I'm heartbroken, frankly. He's all I can think about right now and I fucking hate that I didn't take the opportunity while I did.

I'm such a car crash. Stupid, stupid...

With my luck, I may as well get some cats.

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  • rayb12
    6 years ago

    What do you mean luck? This was all your own behavior.

    How do you think he felt having the girl he was into push him away?

    Only thinking about your feelings it sounds like you really weren't ready

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Because every guy I get with apart from him loses interest after 3 dates. Then I find someone who is interested, and I act like a fucking idiot.

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      • rayb12
        6 years ago

        You only responded to my first question which was rhetorical.

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  • Kaegirl23
    6 years ago

    You shouldn’t blame your self on something like this.. sounds like you weren’t ready to “date date” him but you should have still kept him on the side and showed that you were more interested in him... that way he wouldn’t move on and find someone else. But don’t let this get you down and depress you. If it wasn’t meant to be and he has already moved on and has a girlfriend then maybe he wasn’t that into you. And now you should move on and maybe you’ll find someone that you really like and makes you happy!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Idk, guys like him don't come around often, I'm learning, especially with gays.

      Sigh...

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  • Kaegirl23
    6 years ago

    The best thing to do now is just let it go.. and try and move on.. you will find someone else when your ready !

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    It happens, and life goes on so don't beat yourself up about it.

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