Keeping the light on is such a turn on.

She's probably an insecure twat like most women. Afraid someone is watching or that u are filming it, or that ur gonna see something that turns u off and makes u never wanna fuck her again or some other ridiculous shit like that. And like most men, you are probably a very visual person when it comes to sexual encounters. You wanna see so you can remember how drop dead gorgeous she is. Maybe u should invest in some night vision specs. Then you'll have a gigantic, awkwardly lit up piece of military hardware on ur head. I'm sure she'll like that more.

I would say get over it. Screwing in the dark is just as pleasurable as screwing in the light. Maybe she is cheating on you and imagining her lover making love to her whilst you are busy drilling her? Then again, as with most woman she has issues with her body, you might think that she is hot whereas she might think she is fat and that her body repulses you.

You should try telling her during the day whilst you are at work, either by calling her or texting her that you cannot wait to get home and ravish her beautiful sexy body so that she can start visualizing what you see before you get home and get her in the mood so to speak. The brain is the most powerful organ in the human body

Ah, so you turn on the light, and the light turns you on.

Eh? Eeeeh?

*cricket noise*

One way to get your way, without an argument might be to have sex in the morning before getting up, and/or a couple of afternoon delight sessions a week. You can have your lights on sex in the day and she can have her lights off sex at night.

In the tiny little box next to your thread there is this multiple answer question... it says:

What is the worst way to die:

some of the answers include

- fried to death
- burned to death
- crushed to death

Then... there is this one:

"Drowned to death"

Just let that sink in for a while

Don't you ever have sex in the daytime? Like morning or weekend afternoon?

I bet it's been this way so long that cave women wanted to let the fire burn down before going at it.

I have a compromise. You should get a dimmer switch so you can have just a little light. Candles are also good. Helps set the romance ;)

You're as much entitled to it your way as she is hers. In the end it's all about who can hold out longer. Make a point to her. The rules established at a start of a marriage determine everything and are hard to change later on.

People tend to aim to please until they get what they want. She has a ring on it, therefore, why compromise?

It works *both ways* mate. Not just hers. Remind her. If you both have to starve till she gets the picture, so be it.

Youre both normal.