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Hi, i have a principe that i must keep my virginity until get married. By my opinion it is normal, i just wanna know many people opinion :)
What if you get married and then you find out you're not sexually compatible?
Normality is just a formality that lies in the perception of life
Get a wife, man
Get a job
Get up and start to live
Open your eyes and breathe
See what you wanna believe
Get what you wanna achieve
And see that it's not worth it.
its your choice and good job keeping it. dont let these people change your mind
Been there done that. I wish im still a virgin but not anymore. I just lost my virginity with my ex and believe me or not, i felt dirty and guilty of myself for having sex with her. I just wished that i remained a virgin if i only knew were going to breakup afterall. I just really wanted to have sex with someone im sure ill be married to. This is comming from a guy.
I highly don't recommend it but it's your choice. Don't let your parents beliefs pressure your decision.
People have alot of different sexual preferences.
After learning their body you learn the other half of them. You learn where their moles are and if they shave everyday or if they smell funky every morning or if they have a foot fetish or if they get off to cross-dressing etc. You learn their TRUE self, what they hide from the world. I would hate committing myself to someone for life without fully knowing everything about them. Sort of like.. would you marry someone without meeting their immediate family? I wouldn't.
Sex is not something one is born with a natural talent for. It takes practice and experience to become a good lover.
Why would you want to be a terrible, inexperienced lover to the woman you love enough to marry? Do you really think fumbling around on your wedding night, with no clue as to how to please your new wife, is a wonderful way to begin a great sex life?
I'd think twice about your plan. Not only will you be a terrible lover in the beginning, but some time down the road you are going to become curious about what it would be like to be with another woman. Don't you think it would be better to have all that behind you BEFORE you got married?
I'm no adherent to the "no sex before marriage or straight to hell brigade"...but...
Not all virgins are totally clueless in this day and age of readily available information. Sure, it's not experience, but it's more than going in blindly.
Additionally, not everyone has the need/urge/whatever to fuck more than one person.
Sex and love are two different things. Before marriage u should feel a guy's tongue licking ur pussy and ass.
Personally, I think it's non-sense. I say do whatever comes naturally to you. If sex is important to you, no need to wait till marriage. Life is short so why should you have to wait for something you really want?
I wouldn't say its normal, but a lot of people chose to. Usually for religious reasons. I decided against it.