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if you were sitting (lets say in a park ) and someone from opposite sex comes by and meets you and then you have a small talk .
After that they ask you out on a date and phone number
would you go ?
(assume you are single and above 18 years of age)
| yes | 8 | |
| no | 5 |
Tbh I have this friend that works at a pet shop.
We have only had a few conversations so I don't really know the girl but she had this guy randomly ask her out.
I found it really odd how it was only literally one week of her "knowing" him, she puts up on her Facebook in a relationship. I found this really stupid Tbh.
With having said that, I was very surprised (in a good way) that a guy actually had the balls to ask her out in person.
I just thought it was weird she jumped into a relationship when she hardly knows him.
If it were me, I'd go out as friends with the guy first to get to see if he's my cuppa tea. Give it time, then let the world on Facebook know.
That's my opinion.
I always thought it was weird for people to date someone they just met. It just feels like you're making yourself vulnerable for them.
Yeah I would've if it was during the time I was single and looking for someone.
I wouldn't completely count it out, but I'd probably have to text them, get to know them a bit on facebook, and maybe talk on the phone. World is full of shitty people.
You have to trust your instincts. And it depends on how they go about things. If this person stops you and wants to chat and get to know Yo then why not? Just stay safe. If this person is eyeing you up and saying they want to fuck you or whatever, or they are only asking question that will help them determine if you're okay to fuck (for example: how old you are, if you have a bf, if you're a virgin, if you find them attractive etc) then hey, they probably are only up for a beat n delete and won't speak to you again- which is fine if you want to do that. Anyway, just think about what you want and if you think that they can actually benefit you.
If said yes to date ask for it to be in public park again but next time ask friend to pass by and say hello and say they can't stop to chat because they have to watch CSI Miami. If date doesn't murder you in 2 weeks repeat. Repeat a total of 5 times, then you can let your guard down if he hasnt murdered you in 4 months. If he has, he's stupid and they should know your friend will be on to them. Also ask your friend to butrape them if your date does murder you. This is what you must do if someone asks you on a date in the manner which you described.