Jewish therapist and a kinky fetish, iin?

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I've been seeing new therapist for a few sessions, whom I really like. I have quite a few kinky fetishes that I have been worried to tell her about as some of them could be considered offensive. The last session I had with her my concerns were revealed and to my surprise and relief she is open to fetishes and things like BDSM and says that its normal. She only crosses a line at fantasies/fetishes that would involve serious harm to myself or others.

Here's my dilemma, my therapist is Jewish, which is completely fine with me and one of the reasons why I chose her, and I have a serious Nazi (SS) fetish as well as an interest in WWII. I'm scared to tell her about this because I don't know what her stance will be on this and I don't want her to be so offended that she terminates the treatment or at least, thinks that there's something seriously wrong with me. In the fantasies I have most mainly focus on me being tortured and the lover of a Nazi Officer, not the Jews in general. Sometimes, I've even had the fleeting thought of seeing my therapist in a SS Uniform and me being tied up and at her mercy... On a lesser note, I have had a huge fetish for Jews in the past and while I'm not as quite worried about offending her on that. I'm still worried about embarrassing myself and making things awkward between us.

So, is it normal? Should I keep my fetish to myself or just tell her?

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  • zenji
    10 years ago

    As a professional she should be able to answer your question, well, professionally. Just ask her. Ask her in pretty much the same way you've told us, i would think.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      Thank you for taking my problem seriously, being understanding and not taking things out of context. You are a very good person. I'll play it safe, be vague until I trust her completely. Then again, she'll probably find out any way so, if she asks I'll tell her. I certainly don't want to jump in it and make things uncomfortable.

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  • penpal21
    10 years ago

    You trust a therapist enough "a few sessions" to discuss your sexual fetishes? Sounds like you're either getting off or this is a fantasy of yours.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      I am not! Why is everyone misunderstanding what I wrote. I don't have a fetish for Jews. I greatly respect them and culture which is why I picked her. I am not attracted to her. She's the one who brought up the conversation that lead to her telling me that she's okay and understanding about fetishes because to her everyone has them.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Ask her how much she charges extra for a blowjob.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      I am not a man. I don't even think she's straight... Regardless, it was never my intention to have sex with her. You have taken everything I wrote out of context! Do you think I would want her to lose her job and her license?!

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        I wasn't asking for you. I was asking for me.

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      • RomeoDeMontague
        10 years ago

        my therapist is Jewish, which is completely fine with me and one of the reasons why I chose her, and I have a serious Nazi (SS) fetish as well as an interest in WWII. I've even had the fleeting thought of seeing my therapist in a SS Uniform and me being tied up and at her mercy.(((Sometimes, I've even had the fleeting thought of seeing my therapist in a SS Uniform and me being tied up and at her mercy)))<== Right here you said you want to sleep with her, you have a jew fetish and you picked your doctor because she is a jew

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        • charli.m
          10 years ago

          A fleeting fantasy does not mean a concrete want or desire.

          I frequently imagine slapping the stupid out of you, but that doesn't mean I actually want to do it (because I don't agree with physical violence).

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          • RomeoDeMontague
            10 years ago

            Charli even if you did want to slap me how could you? I am talking to you through a computer. Unless you have some type of jurisdiction over the internet you can do virtually nothing to me. Not to say I am going to use the internet to go sexually harass people or some nonsense but we are on the computer. Unless you plan on doing something like sending me a virus your spite would just be wasted effort. I can not hurt you and you can not hurt me. This is a free zone for any nonsense people decide to decide to put on it.

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          • RomeoDeMontague
            10 years ago

            We can be angry all we want it does nothing. Someone on the internet is always going to piss you off no matter who you are. Its free game and cyber space is the ultimate equalizer. This sentence is about as fake as our usernames. Just a bunch of digital numbers that wont mean anything later. Like the genetic make up of a human all of this is just code.

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            • charli.m
              10 years ago

              There is nothing fake about your utter lack of intelligence, compassion, reason or abounding hateful rage.

              Words have consequences, you pathetic little fool.

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  • shuggy-chan
    10 years ago

    Haha well hitler was a Jew after all

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      No, I don't think he was. I think his anger towards Jews was because of a Jewish doctor that failed to heal one of his relatives, or something like that.

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  • Wuggums47
    10 years ago

    First of all don't listen to all the people acting like dicks to you. I personally don't think it's a normal fetish, but then again, what the frak is a normal fetish? If fetishes were normal, it would just be a part of vanilla sex. I doubt you chose your therapist because you want to have sex with her, and if sex is the root of your problem/what's troubling you, it's perfectly normal to tell your therapist about your fetishes. What are you supposed to talk about, the weather? Also if I were you, I wouldn't want to hide something from my therapist, but at the same time this might not be the best person to tell. As a professional, she can't and almost certainly won't treat you different, or act like you're a freak. Because she is jewish, and maybe even if she wasn't she might personally not view you as highly if you have a nazi fetish. I'm only half jewish, and to be honest I'm offended that the very people who tortured mine are idolized as sex symbols, even if it's by a very small portion of the population. The thing is, most people would consider me a freak, or be offended by my fetishes, and it's not their place to judge.

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  • driedroses
    10 years ago

    You sound similar to a friend of mine. Kind of eerie.. But it's a small world I guess!! Anyways, just tell her. Be real. I find it's always best to be real. She's a therapist. I'm sure she's heard a lot of ~weirder things.

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    To be honest this sounds like you are just a pervert who picked that doctor so you could fuck her. You also seemed worry your plan might have backfired which was stupid planning on your part.

    Your doctor does not need to know you have a fetish and while most fetish are considered abnormal they are not as a whole considered bad if not a bit unhygienic. I will also add that it would be very unprofessional to fuck you. Meaning if she did she could lose her license over it.

    Stop trying to sexual harass your doctor. You know she is in charge of your medical care so trying to harass her could be written up very easily and you will get your sorry butt tossed away. I don't think most doctors are going to be so stupid as to fuck a client. If they care for there jobs and reputations at all.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      I am not a pervert (and not a man) and I am by no means getting off about her about the other things. There was no "plan" either. I picked her because she specializes in the many issues I have. The main reason I saw her was for past sexual abuse. I am not sexually harassing her and she knows this. I also know that she not trying to sexually harass me by the fact that she was the one who brought up the aspect of fetishes. I don't want to have sex with her and I especially don't want her to lose her job. I am not that kind of person that most of you users have painted me out to be and that pains me. This site is very judgmental.

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