Jealousy???

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I feel weird writing this, I never cheated, on my husband when he was deployed, but I had my best friend, that was a guy. He helped me take care of my mom and helped me threw her death while my husband was gone.
When my husband came home, he was the one that I would talk to when my husbands temper got outta control and even when he got arrested for DV. A month after my best friend wanted me to date him, the got mad at me when I said I didn't want to "move on" that quickly and I wasn't sure where my marriage was at with my kids and all to think about. He got mad and stormed out on bowling. Saying I didn't care about him. I tried calling him 2 days later but he changes his number and didn't respond to any messages of I am sorry.
Now, 6 months later, I find out he engaged... and it's bothering me. I don't know why it's bothering me so badly, I never minded him dating when we where friends. But part of me feeling like this is wrong for him, but what would I know, he isn't my friend anymore... I hurt and a little angry when I found out..

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  • deepthought33
    13 years ago

    Yea I agree with Mando. Where as YOU thought you had a friend while your husband was deployed and thought you had a friend while your husband was loosing his temper and stressing your marriage your supposed friend thought HE had a possible fuck buddy and ditched you once he realized you wouldn't cheat on your husband with him. Sorry for the run-on sentence. I'm sorry though. It sucks to loose a friend.

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  • lululu
    13 years ago

    make up your mind! you should be happy that your best friend is in love even if that woman is not you. but u had ur chance six months ago and u didn't take it.now it's late to regret!
    focus on your family, look after your babies and husband and forget about this old friend. i know it's hard but there's no other way.

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  • dogsdieinhotcars
    13 years ago

    I think I care more about deepyhought33's awful spelling of lose ! You might lose your clothes if you wear them too loose.

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