Its never mutual & never will be iin?

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I don't think I have that zest when it comes to sexual attraction. I'm not really sure how to explain what I mean but I'll try my best. I think a lot of people find me cute & pretty but I dont feel I'm anything amazing like I'm not hot or sexy. Yes, there have been guys call me beautiful and hot but I personally wouldn't see myself as this. I am bi & the 2 girls I have had major crushes on never wanted anything more :/ I don't know how to be more sexually attractive/flirty. I just think people see me as crazy & funny type of girl which would put me in the friend zone! I'm 22 and I feel dishearted at the fact I'm just dating material . I see a lot of very attractive, smart looking ladies & wish I had their persona. I do not think I'll find someone who I connect with on deeper level who feels equally the same.

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  • Sarahjaynegurl
    7 years ago

    If someone called you beautiful, you're beautiful. Unless it was on Facebook. Either way, you're hot to someone. Find them!

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  • rayb12
    7 years ago

    Confidence is really everything, and if you aren't then just fake it. Also if you can find any parts of your body you like, that's good. That all being said, I think it is really hard for anyone to see themselves as sexy, and those who can don't feel that way all the time. You just not denying you're cute/pretty puts you ahead of most girls when it comes to body image. Don't think you're crazy for having such a distorted perception that you have people telling you that you're hot but you don't see it. Sadly that is the norm. I don't think I've ever met a hot girl that really understood that they were one.

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  • riffraffy
    7 years ago

    Lose weight, be feminine = that's how you become more attractive.

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    • strangethingshappen
      7 years ago

      Are u the same moron that commented on a previous post of mine ? First of all - Assumption is the mother of all fuck ups & secondly I am far from that description and would swear on my own life

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      • riffraffy
        7 years ago

        Whatever you say, just realize that your problem is an attraction problem. Take the measures suit you best.

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    • rayb12
      7 years ago

      having just talked through a person in the hospital dying of anorexia this is some scary stuff, you never know who reads this stuff or where they're at. At the same time, not trying to censor you

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      • riffraffy
        7 years ago

        That's true, there's mentally ill people out there. Good on you to help that person.

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