Its just like no, always

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Okay, getting guys to like flirt with me and want to like hang ouT is no problem. butt then usually i postpone the hanging out to flirt so i could see if i even like him. and if i do, its like a week or two weeks later, i get bored of the guy and completely ignore him. the first time, i was like okay, his fault. Second time, what is with the boys that hit on me. Third time, is something wrong with me?

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  • Jim_Pfoss
    15 years ago

    You are self-destructing.
    Any guy who would wait weeks and weeks to hang out with you is not going to be the most exciting guy around. All the exciting guys have found other more spontaneous girls while you are filly-farting around giving mixed signals.
    You are actually deliberately selecting guys who will never please you.

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    • niicocofosho
      15 years ago

      Oh my god, thanks.
      very honestt. didnt think of it that way.

      just wanted to say thanks, but lolol how the hell do you stop doing something you didnt relaize you even did?

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  • i_love_religion...not
    13 years ago

    ^ hahahaha!!

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  • IveGotBallsOfSteal
    14 years ago

    please stop typing in a way that reflects your horrid California teenage girl speech pattern. My eyes are bleeding and my brain is short circuiting now.
    Sadly, I'm going to just say NORMAL out of assumption.

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    • IveGotBallsOfSteal
      14 years ago

      ...because I have no idea what you were even trying to say...

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  • rainmay
    14 years ago

    i think ur more interested in the flirting

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  • Ruiasu
    14 years ago

    I do this. I've got a new one like every week. I don't do it on purpose, I just can't help it.
    I feel so unattractive, and lucky to be getting the attention.
    But when I think about it, these guys are really attractive and nice, and they're willing to leave their girlfriends for me sometimes, or go months without getting anything physiccal from me, or devote their full attention to me.

    I'm realising that every guy I know has been like with me at some point. And I know a LOT of guys. So I can't actually be that bad, why do I do this?

    I only ever really returned their interest once, and I was in love with him for 3 years. One year of that was spent apart from him and I'd just flirt with guys I didn't care about until I was bored. Sometimes I know I don't care, sometimes I think I'm really trying but it doesn't work out.

    There's only one other guy I feel ANYTHING for, and he's about to become single so MAYBE I can get out of this horrible cycle soon. Gah.

    Good luck. x

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  • scarfface
    14 years ago

    you just realised ur doing it

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    • niicocofosho
      14 years ago

      yeup, i did. its called denial.

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