It's not normal to build your life but change ought to come to a halt

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Change ought to come to a halt, everyone in society and there is that small worldwide society doing this, is always suggesting something better of you, trying to change you, suggesting corruptions of your personality.

They're messing with your mind, have you noticed there's one half of people who hate change and suggest no change, and their friends want them to think they should be so much more, greater, different from they are?

Normal people haven't changed a bit, and they or their normal philosophy refuses change. Period.

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  • Sanara
    2 years ago

    This is too general to really get what you're talking about. But of course we encourage people to change the problems they either have or cause

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    • normal-rebellious
      2 years ago

      It's not that complicated, it's about people whose suggestion is to try something different next time instead of accepting you the way you are, older people who work in shops do this too, my parents do this and sometimes the support worker does this, I'm getting tired of this.

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  • bbrown95
    2 years ago

    Change is a sign of growth, and a part of life. You don't have to completely alter your personality, but usually as one matures and grows, certain things about them change over time, especially their perspective on things.

    While I agree people trying to change others in order to fit a mold that just isn't them and never will be is bad, I don't think it's wrong for friends to suggest healthy lifestyle changes that might greatly improve a person's life (especially if that person complains to them about things going wrong in their life that are in their control). Whether or not that person takes that advice is up to them.

    I have always disliked certain types of change and had a hard time adapting to it (usually involving goodbyes of some sort), but growing and improving as a person is thankfully not one of those things and I'm very glad I'm not the same person I was 5-10 years ago, as I had some very naive and immature ways of looking at things, and ways of handling certain situations. I look back on my past self and am very happy with how much I've grown and how much my life has changed for the better.

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    • normal-rebellious
      2 years ago

      The problem isn't so much changing myself but that I have an identity and people, making me angry, want to change it, trying to destroy my consistency, to make me a fake person. Why do you think keeping it real was invented? And despite keeping it real not having class I keep my classiness real because on formal occasions I preserve my prestige by wearing a suit and tie, and sometimes I eat ultragourmet food, I'm a prestige purist, it's simple but it's very difficult.

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      • bbrown95
        2 years ago

        What are they trying to change about you? I agree that trying to turn someone into a person they're not is not good, and you should never feel like you have to be a fake person. There's definitely a difference between improving and bettering yourself, and turning into a completely different person that isn't true to yourself.

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        • normal-rebellious
          2 years ago

          They're trying to put my disobedience/rebellion to a stop and trying to stop the Puritanism, and trying to stop me from ever being normal, or consistent, especially my roommate the main one responsible for his jealousy that I'm ever religious, he doesn't like my religion and thinks his Christianity has more truth than the Christianity with so many rules. I can tell you now he's a depressed man and makes trouble and bullshit with my religion, any religion, for the world will hate the Christians, or will get jealous every time you're a Puritan.

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          • bbrown95
            2 years ago

            Practice whatever religion you like, and if he can't accept "Let's just believe what we wish and respect each other's beliefs", you may have to just let it go through one ear and out the other if getting into an argument might cause an issue with your living situation. But, you can choose to believe however you want. I would limit contact with him as much as possible.

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            • normal-rebellious
              2 years ago

              It's bloody hard, but I found out religion's not true, not only that but it interferes with the things I want.

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  • olderdude-xx
    2 years ago

    Change is the natural order of things.... Adjust, or be made obsolete... which often leads to a shorter less happy rest of your life...

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