It's not iin, but i need help!

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My wife not really shows normal sexual feeling as anyone does. It had been 10 years since we married, I can say we had sex because of needing baby. Wife is good in parenting, think of family, taking care of home, cleaning, washing and take care our child, but she don’t feel like: holding our hand, kissing, romantic. She entirely opposite of me in many things but this one i could not digest. I feel so badly want to see someone sex with her or want let someone "F" her and I want really see that she feel the feeling and how it’s like, and I feel that she may find new feeling with someone. It may give me the chance to fresh start with her. I don’t feel to touch her now, and she just sleep one side and I sleep one side and every night feeling thinking too much and its killing me. We are Indian and don’t now how to make her to become open minded and I don’t know how to start and I never expressed with her like this but want to find, if someone can help or if there any place they can help on this.

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    start small, when you two are in bed try snuggling close and see how she responds? then move on from there. Take the initiative to kiss her more often, hug her more often. When you do eventually have sex try to focus the pleasure on her.

    If she doesn't seem to like the kissing/cuddling then try talking to her, see what she wants. You might need some couples therapy

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