It's arousing to me to think about my wife with other men

I love to watch my wife with other men. It's so hot to watch another man make her cum.

I've always been turned on by this fantasy and have had girlfriends who have fucked other guys with me there and not there...I absolutely was beside myself with lust for them...To have other guys cum in them was my ultimate turn on...Sex with a girl who has just been loaded by another guy...NOW THAT'S HOT!!!

my husband wants to do this too. im still on the fense about it. trust and communication is key. gotta know boundaries and have ground rules. make sure youre absolutely ready! try http://www.actualswingers.com/for some research and to get a look at your options.

Trust me, it's normal in full, it just means you have a fetish about that. I'd look up the name for you, but I'm not sure where I'd go about doing that. Everyone has those, so congratulations, you're normal.

Go to a swingers party! They are full of nothing but couples that share the same desires. :) It's perfectly healthy, and normal. It's just not for everyone, and thats okay.

I am in the same boat and I would give anything to see my wife with another man. She is very hot but ultra conservative and stuck up, as well as religious. She is 26 and I am the only guy that she has been with, her first partner. I know I would love the real experience of seeing it done as I can masturbate many times in a row thinking about it, and often think about it when we are having sex. Any pointers to pulling it off?

Definitely try it. It's great to move from this type of fantasy to reality. Watching a wife get pleasure from other men is wonderful. My wife has sex with other men very often and we both love it.

As long as there is honest communication and as long as it is all about you two in the end I believe swinging can be a very satisfying way of sharing your love.

My wife and i talked about it for a long time and finally she did it with a friend of mine who is hun like a horse. (I watched her ive him oral - later I left and she had sex with him) It was one of the most sexually intense moments of our lifes. We have a great marriage and are closer than ever.

I'd just say...be careful and only proceed if you are 100% secure in your relationship and it's somthin u both want to do to add spice to both of your sex lives.

I heard that this is a newer craze around society and I truly don't get it. My fiance was a virgin when I started to go with her and the idea that she may be curious about other men has occured to me in the past. However, if she did want to try someone else I just hope she would let me know ahead of time and we talk it out.

I am not okay with her being with a different guy but if she absolutely has to so she can feel "complete" for some off the wall reason, it would be nice to try someone else as well. However, I'm a faithful man so I am okay with the idea of both of us being faithful in the end.

Ive had threesomes with my wife and her best friend, a woman. Later I shared her with a guy we knew that she wanted to f###. I suggest if you share your wife with another man to go with a couple because a single man will try to keep having sex with your wife when youre not around.

Thats what happened to me, she slept with that guy for 2 months after our threesome and we almost split up because of it. But everything is fine now.

You stated she asked for this after you had sex? It is obvious that deep inside you feel like you are not satisfying your wife and you have a great need to do so. You need to be truly honest with yourself would it make you feel better if she were to go out and someone were to rock her world or worse? Maybe your answer to this will be both. I believe what you are feeling is normal, you want to know if it is you with a problem satisfying her or that she just can't be satisfied. You bought these toys and you stated they were your same size or larger, this is all part of it. You do not want to even think about the possibility that something smaller could do it for her, you want to feel like its the size and not you.
I think if you do some searching you will find that you do not truly wish for your wife to have sex with other men, you are searching for something that bother you more than her. Have fun with the toys, you have did the right thing. You are doing your part to satisfy her and it sounds like you both are enjoying it. Don't take a chance on your marriage, I think it sounds like you care for her too much to want to lose her

We've discussed this before and so far it has only been fondling and oral sex which has been quite often......Now we'll have to discuss with our friends, neighbors, coworkers, etc.as most are married and their wives wouldn't approve.....They all have seen her naked many, many times as at home she is always naked at all times like 24/7 no matter who is visiting and there are many. I have seen her perform with other guys but now for intercourse and I'd like to film for posterity so now 'all have to discuss with the others....

Im beginning to wonder about people. If your to be having sex with other people, why get married? I don't get it. If you want multiple sex partners go for it, but marriage is supposed to be commitment. I think people get married sometimes because society expects it, but still want to sleep around. Do what you feel, but don't call it a marriage anymore.

i too hve such fantasy but its nt goood dude..

My ex boyfriend he wss basicslly a top I bottom well he wanted to bottom. We found a hot guy he went wild. Its hot to hear your other half moan like crazy and u are not causing it.

Get it done. Hold her legs open and watch him slide in her. You in her mouth and have a blast. Its great. When he finishes then your turn

I wonder if my man would go for the dildo thing. But I think he might feel a little insecure when all the dicks I order are black.

It is normal to fantasise about these types of things. But before you decide to act on it and if you do be very careful cause it could destroy your marraige.

Your thinking is probably right. If your this apprehensive, then your probably not ready for this. If you're concerned about "normal" I think your real concern is do other people do it without ruining the relationship. My vote is stick with the fake dildos.

Hell yes its OK & whats your address, Again?

It's normal to fantasize about it. I don't think doing it is actually the right thing to do for most couples, though. For some, maybe.

As a fantasy, it is f**king hot. Turns both of us on a lot. I think it's normal to feel excited watching our mate get f**ked because it's hardwired as a trait from our animal past. Gets me cumming twice as much in her too...

It's nice to have fantasies, but your concern about whether something could happen is well-placed. No sense in looking for trouble.

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lol you obviously have a small cock :)

Thats a little messed up.

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