It it normal to have been sad since i was 13

Im 22 i been sad since i was 13 it just i cant seem to ever be happy i try my best but i cant. There are somethings that make me fell good but not happy i like helping people all the time but i cant seem to help my self. I never had a gf i try to talk to girls but i just cant i get scared to death i feel like passing out and most of the time when i finish talking to a girl im completely drained.

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  • mathwiz6

    Maybe see a hooker. Sorta like the Sham-Wow guy.

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  • Depression, You should maybe see someone.
    Not normal.

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  • cookie_monster

    Yeah it's like if I never experienced "TRUE" happiness. I was like this since i was 15 (besides the girl part and im 18 now) and I never talked to anyone about it. But when I did I felt way better. Just talk to someone that you trust and don't hold anything in, because it only makes things worst. TRUST ME!

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  • gggg

    Ok xgrim isn't right don't try weed but it's depression...go to the doctor and they souls prescribe u to an antideprescent...that really sux tht uve been sad since 13 though! As one wise man used to say...DON'T WORRY BE HAPPY!

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  • Scrat

    I've been sad since I was born :(

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  • The advice about getting help through your Dr or a counsellor is good. The advice re: pot is stupid.

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  • I Have been sad since I was six I go to a therapist since I refuse to take pills it actually helps to talk to some one or it could just be me due to my paranioa and antisocial disorder

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  • Laurynas

    You need to go to a party and get well-drunk and shitfaced, that will deffunatlyyyyy gt y0 sorteeddddd.....zzzz....zzzzzz...zzzz....zzzzz....

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  • max

    yeah i was like this, i seemed to want to feel like shit but pot helped, chills you out and helps get a partner which helps even more

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    • secrettellings

      it doesn't help you idiot.

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      • max

        dude im just saying what helped me

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  • angelkanarias

    maybe you have clinical depression. It's treatable, look for help.

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  • hotchickie81

    Wow, you sound a lot like me! Well I'm not quite to that extent anymore. I'm much happier now that I'm married and have a couple of cats. But I know what you're going through. There was a time when, if I felt happy, it did not even feel right! It was like I was meant to be sad 24/7! And it really began when I was 13, and last to my mid-20s! Good luck :)

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  • mtnw

    sounds clinical being that it has gone on for so long. i think it's overdue that you get a physical from your doctor, and make sure to bring this long term sadness up.

    your other issues probably stem from feeling so bad for so long.

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  • xcmm92

    try talking to a psychologist, that might help

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  • Try weed.

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    • secrettellings

      oh shut up you drugy

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    • hotchickie81

      Yes, it does help with depression! :)

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