It is normal to have a relation with a 48 guy.even though i'm just 20

I was 20 year old, yes young but all of the people said i'm matured look like 25...
There's a 48 guy courting me.his single,no kids.his just look like a 30 plus guy,

I allow him to court me because his single and no kids,,and at the same time i know his a responsible man,his working in a government company. all of his friends knows that his courting at me...and all them said that once i answer him i wont might regret...his a religious guy..his really kind.gentleman,we actually go out for a date, when we talk we see each other the same ages. i already introduce him to my family and friends.likewise him...

Please help me do i need give him another chance to be his girl friend or soon to be his future wife??

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Comments ( 29 )
  • casadejoey

    I think that you're 20 ad use the word court is a little strange.

    Do you feel a lot older than you are?

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  • muscle

    I love how amazing your grammar is

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  • fraufrau

    Keep in mind that if it turns out to be in the longterm, that you may not think/feel the same at 20 than you would at 30. People change!

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  • randomjelly

    From your grammar we can tell you are not in fact mature or educated. Get out and experience life with people your own age....learn and grow.

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  • lilrn

    Yuck!

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  • amberinboston

    Age doesn't matter. As long as you're both adults. My ex husband is 11 years older and acted 14.

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  • Sure - but think about your future - like if you have children soon he will be in his mid to late 60s when they are teen-agers; and, when you are 48, he will be 76. You may have much in common - but you do not share all that much in common regarding your stages of life.

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  • kittylitter101

    Daddy issues

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  • Avant-Garde

    I don't see a problem with this. If he makes you happy, I'd say give him a chance.

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  • IrishPotato

    If it makes you happy, sure, why not ^^.

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  • ccjigsaw

    I'm guessing she's foreign guys, stop harping on her grammar and odd word usage :/

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  • zadenb

    Going into 7th grade I dated a guy that was 21. Truth is, I'm still dating him 0.0 I love him more than anything. Age doesn't matter

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  • kekkiumai

    Op is probably Chinese for using the word court instead of date. A lot of Chinese ppl do hahaha

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  • Yaegs43

    I'm married my wife is 55 and I'm 23 it's normal to me.

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  • lusaka

    Nothing wrong with amrrying sum1 older than you I am 54 yrs and my wife 36, my only worry is though I love my wife very much, but she will survive me long after I have died, which is very painful thought. Your boyfriend should think this... I know I shouldnt have married my wife but at the same time she is lovely and caring but still there is that worry....

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  • MissyP

    I had a friend from Zambia who spoke just like this - Who says the writer's first language is English? Give her a break!

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  • to all the people out there who comment me thank you,and for all the people out there who didn't comment me instead insult me,,,....better visit our God and thanks him that you guys are very intelligent when it comes in grammar,,,haha you guys so funny no one is perfect ok,,keep in mind no ones perfect..

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  • avocadism

    there is nothing inept about that for me. well, my mom is 30 and my dad is 45 tough. we build a happy family <3

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  • awilke1218

    I see nothing wrong with that at all. You cant control who you fall in love with. Im 20 and fell in love with a 56 year old man and he fell in love with me. I obviously dont base anything on his looks or his age but just him as a person. I love him for who he is.

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  • Robert1120

    Nothing wrong with that at all. I'm 48 and haven't dated a girl over 30 in the past 5 years.

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  • sydney15

    What does "courting" mean?

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      -
    • a man's courting of a woman; seeking the affections of a
      woman (usually with the hope of marriage); "its was a
      brief and intense courtship"...

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  • Thanks for all your comment i own the story about" It is normal to have a relation with a 48 guy.even though i'm just 20 " ....now were more than friends but were not yet officially on..maybe i can call M.U....i'm really happy when i'm with him....what we call this???

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  • dwe

    I hope there's someone out there like you for me when I'm 48. Then I know the chances are that I'll die first and won't have to live alone.

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  • EpicTales

    It is true that the stages of life may come between you, but if it's what you want there's no stopping it. Make sure that your future will be shared evenly with how you want to live it. I have been through an experience close to this so I call it normal. You are who you are.

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