It is normal to get the pictures of the ex girl friend

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My boy friend is talking to his ex girl friend.
He is hiding it from me. I saw her recent pictures on the system. When I asked he is saying I already know about her. Yes I know about her, but getting all the recent pictures from her is bothering me. I am crying most of the time. He says not to talk about the topic and still the talking a pictures continues. Am I behaving normal?

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Based on 63 votes (35 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Keeping pictures is fine. I still treasure and "HIDE" my Vietnam pictures with my Exgirlfriend although my current fiance hates her. It depends on the pictures though, if they are clean and he doesn't glance at them often, there is no harm in it. If you catch him beating off to them though, then it is a problem.

    For an example though, I still have my exgirlfriends pictures in a link in my profile, with my current fiance's picture in it as well. As long as he puts you first, there is no problem, from my point of view anyways.

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  • jdube
    14 years ago

    You are normal. He's an asshole. Get rid of him. The end.

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  • TalkAndTouch
    13 years ago

    Yes I can understand when your bf talks about his ex gf and swaps pics (and what KIND of pics?!!)

    But like the other guy said, you should find out if they are just friends.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Its normal to want to be assured that things are over between your bf & his previous gf. Yet he is carrying on behind your back.

    Yes some people maintain friendships with a previous gf or bf. But not one that is clandestine, & without the consent of & at the expense of their current partner's feelings. It smacks of an emotional affair.

    This may be a deal breaker. He is out of line. Consider telling him to knock it off or leave - if you trust him enough to give him a 2nd chance.

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  • IveGotBallsOfSteal
    14 years ago

    Your jealous but he's not being legit. For sure.

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