It is normal to be gay for only one other guy?

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I am a 19yr old male and I have known my best friend since kindergarten. Recently he broke up with his long time girlfriend and im starting to remember our experimental past.I've even gone as far as to let him know "i'm down for whatev" sexually. He is the only Male I am attracted or feel for in a strong way.So, is it normal for me to be gay for only one other male?

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Based on 247 votes (195 yes)
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  • Exa
    13 years ago

    Sure, why not? Doesn't even mean you're gay, either, you just happen to have one guy you like.
    I'm the same way, only reversed. Gay, but there's this one girl...
    Heck, some people eschew labels altogether and determine their relationships on a person-by-person basis.

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    • forevermyself
      12 years ago

      I'm exactly the same way too, it just happens, totally normal

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  • mas_user
    13 years ago | pl

    Bromance!

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  • Rochester
    13 years ago

    I think that it is quite normal for you to be attracted to your best friend and to desire to have sexual relations with him. I only hope that he will feel the same way too so that you can both join together in sexual union.
    You have known him since kindergarten and have had an experimental past with him and I bet that you really feel for him in a special way. Hey, go for it, love him and have sex with him
    so that you are both as one.
    I would love to receive any comments by private message and any other advice you wish for, but just love your guy.

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    • corndogs
      13 years ago

      He is down for oral intercorse but I just dont know how to approach him and tell him I want to do it. Its still a little weird, but at least he knows how I feel now. Should I just be straightforward to him?

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      • Legion
        13 years ago

        Its normal, it means you have a crush on him. Is hes down with it, maybe you should go for it. tell him you want him. if you want a relationship, tell him that too. see what he says. dont hesitate, or the feelings he may have toward you will fade.

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  • rockerxchick313
    13 years ago

    Normal for sure. Especially since you know him best. Trust me. Totally normal, because youre so close to him.

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  • House
    13 years ago

    YES!that's so sweet!!!i don't know why but this just made my day!

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  • n2645t
    13 years ago

    You know what really sucks? Will i end up in bed with him is the question thats killing me! im glad you let him know the way you feel about him! kinda in the same situation and im scared to let him know! you never know how its going to end up!

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  • Cajincatcher
    13 years ago

    This is so sweet! x3

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    it is normal you might not have filing likr this for him for long ou shod tel him find out if he fils the same way about you

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  • Littledreamer
    11 years ago

    I was lesbian for only one girl an one girl only. Besides that one girl I'm as straight as a line. Totally normal.

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  • thegift
    13 years ago

    This is soo awesomme. Pick up some orange jumpsuits and Get some cosplay action going!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    yes! I m sure I feel the same way for one of my bestfriends and whats wierd is she is going through a break up too *sigh* yet I dont have the courage to step up sometime I wish she would make a move tho I know thhat not likely to happen and she is the only girl I am into other than that i love guys!! so it has to be normal!!

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  • JazzyJim
    13 years ago

    Very normal, especially in this situation since you have already experimented in the past. Talk to him about it directly and get him to do it. You've just got to get to the point where you take him in your mouth again and everything will seem natural.

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  • angelatarantula
    13 years ago

    maybe its just me ... maybe not but i feel we fall in love with people not genders. i personally like anything that i find attractive (lust at 1st sight) mostly because i am bi but i feel that people fall in love with people (who they are/personalities) i never understood the concept of love at first sight. you can't know a person at first glance. anyway your story reminds me of brokeback mountain. sounds like u just fell for someone you knew. you love them for who they are and the experiences you've shared. i hope the feelings are reciprocated :D good luck!

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  • envy_wrath
    13 years ago

    seems like hes giving you the O.K on this

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  • Ha-Rim
    13 years ago

    I realy understand about you.

    Love have no boundary. U attract to boy and it just a normal act for early teen.

    I like my bestfriend, i like his lifestyle, he so adoreable, and i didnt knw why i like him. Maybe becouse we live together.

    I think thats normal.

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  • y007steph
    13 years ago

    The question is that if you have a g/f or not. And would you be dare to mention this feeling to her?

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  • cybad
    13 years ago

    No matter how many here say it's ok and normal, it isn't. You have a dick, some girl out there craves for one. As for your friend, you'd better help him find another chic. Love him all you want, but no point in turning yourself into a girl just to "console" him. he will appreciate you more if you just told him to forget about his ex and move on. IT IS NOT NORMAL.

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