It is normal that you can have a crush on someone that treats you bad.

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Is it normal that i still have feelings for a guy that i been on and off dating for only three months even when he treats me like shit. And treat others better then he does me. Is there something wrong with me i mean i guess i can't help the feelings that when he was a sweetheart towards me but now i feel like he cares but kinda doesn't(asshoe) haha

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Like NeuroNeptunian said, "Women like jerks. Old news."

    Soon after you'll be saying "Where are all the good men" simply because you choose to be with the jerks.

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    • Lynxikat
      12 years ago

      This.

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    • Hoohahohyahhh
      12 years ago

      They're in the friendzone being left there for these jerks!

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago

        Exactly.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    what are you getting out of the relationship?

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  • alv1592
    12 years ago

    No matter how physically attractive he is, he's not worth it if he treats you that bad. You seem like a nice girl, you deserve better.

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  • ShreksIdenticalTwinBrother
    12 years ago

    Yeah, it's normal but I advise against that! YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN HIM!

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago

    It's so simple I don't understand how you don't see it. Women go for handsome dudes and handsome dudes can get away with bad attitude and still get girls flock to them.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    It's normal because its human nurture. People like others who don't like them.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago

    When things start to become hot and cold... its time to put that whole 'mess' in the past. He's not worth it. Move on.

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  • kelso
    12 years ago

    Not good, but sadly very normal. We almost always end up pursuing the one that treats us badly.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    12 years ago

    Women like jerks.
    Old news.

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  • Blue_Velvet
    12 years ago

    Yes it's normal but not worth it.

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  • karmasAbich
    12 years ago

    Totally normal. Its just a matter of respecting yourself, deciding whether or not its worth it or not in the long run. I understand liking someone, but yoy also need to think about yourself and whether you like him, or the sweetheart act he puts on for you. Good luck hope things get better for you.

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