It is normal that my boyfriend keeps getting distant

My boyfriend gets mad or annoyed and I can’t get an answer as to why. He gets mad when I ask what’s wrong or he’ll say nothing is wrong. Bu his face says something is going on but he just won’t tell me. Hell say no one is doing anything to me so why would something be wrong? But his tone of voice and the way he looks at me tells me something else. Like hell come home from work and get on his phone on OfferUp and look for cars, and he’ll be doing that all day if he could, he doesn’t conversate with me throughout the day, he won’t hug me and when I give him one, he’ll just stand there with a stupid look on his face, or if I ask him for a hug, he kinda rolls his eyes and gives me a weak hug with only one arm. Damn this is killing me. He doesn’t tell me he loves me anymore unless I say it to him. When I ask how his day at work was, he says “it was alright” and that’s all. If I ask why he’s so quiet, he’ll say because there’s nothing to talk about. When he goes to one room and I go too, he’ll leave. When he’s mad at me and we’re fighting he’ll tel me I make him miserable and that why did I come back to him after the 2nd time we broke up. He’s very very very nasty when he argue and I can never get mad at anything he does or say because he’ll attack harder and low blow me about me having boyfriend before me and how I should go with them. I’m always home and taking care of our 5 yr old. But when he gets home from work, things get weird for me because I have a feeling something is going on that he doesn’t wanna tell me. I’ll be excited to see him knowing he’s almost out of work and when he does come home, he’s to himself and will not talk to me about anything other than he’s hungry. or maybe he’s just angry at the fact that I have 4 boyfriends before him, and according to him that makes me a slut. I’m afraid to leave because I left him before but always came back to him because I feel dependent on him and I don’t work so I feel like he takes care of me in that sense but not so much as his girlfriend because he things bad things about me having a life before I met him. I had sex with 4 guys who were my boyfriends during high school. I never slept with Randoms but to him I’m such a who’re and slut for dating those guys. I’m so sweet and kind to my BF, although I am becoming clingy, but simply because I’m not feeling validated by him anymore and I don’t know what to do about this anymore I feel like I’m gonna have an anxiety attack one day
Is it normal that he’s becoming distant? I want to die man I don’t have anyone to talk to.

Ps. He’s mentally emotionally and PHYSICALLY abusive to me. But when he’s happy he’s so sweet and caring but that’s like 20% of the time out pf 80.