It is normal that my boyfriend is so close to his ex-girlfriend?

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So I know my boyfriend loves me and I understand that his best friend is his ex-girlfriend who he was serious with for 2 years before breaking up to go to college where he met me. He has never indicated that he wants to get back with her, but their relationship makes me uncomfortable. When looking for another picture on his laptop, I discovered that he had taken pics with his ex during break and she was kissing him on the cheek and they were hugging and resting their heads atop each other. She also is always asking if he has had sex with me, which he denies, even though he has... His response is that they the cheek kiss was nothing, he even forgot about it, and that he is just ashamed not be a virgin. I do not want to be an overbearing jealous gf, but i can't help but hate her, and feel hurt. IIN?

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  • emotionalwreck4ever
    12 years ago

    if he denys yuu guys are having sex its because he still cares about her.

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  • Crudhouse
    12 years ago

    Ask him to never see that girl again. It's you or it's her. Romance and the urge for romantic love can't be as controlled as people like to think. Platonic relationships are only possible between the two sexes in theory

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  • Ho0ligan
    12 years ago

    Waste that bitch.

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  • REvEnGE
    12 years ago

    Share you feeling with ur bf.

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  • DeadPool
    10 years ago

    Talk to both of them besides there will always something between them

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  • mim90
    12 years ago

    they obviously still have a good friendship dont be jealous though youve got the guy not her. i think you shoould approach his ex and just tell her how it makes you feel when they are together. ask him if he is going to be serious with your relationship because it obviosly means alot to you and i think you should do something about you cant just stand back and let him put whats meant to be your on other girls. maybe he might have changed his mind hanging out with his ex a few times and he isnt a very good boyfriend if he goes over to other girls houses and takes photos like that when he is in a relationship it just isnt on. you definitly need to talk to both of them at sometimeotherwise you two are going to drift apart and thats not what a relationship is about. you are meant to be there for each other and clearly he isnt you need to confront him and ask him what is going on.best of luck im sure it will be ok :)

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