It is normal that i want to see my gf have hot sex with a guy?

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I'm male. I'm 26. My girlfriend is 23. She beautiful. We're madly in love with each other. She's open to threesomes..it is something that excites her, but she would like it with another girl, not with a guy.
I, as a guy of course finds this a huge turn on..and I'd definitely do it as long as we're both comfortable with it. Interestingly enough though, I've often fantasized of seeing her have hot,steamy, raunchy sex with another guy. Now please note that we have a very open relationship. We have GREAT communication. We've both described our sexual experiences and adventures that we've previously had, who we had it with etc..even in detail. When I hear her talk about sex with her ex boyfriends, I actually visualize it and it really turns me on. I even tell her to describe to me in detail sex with her exes in detail and it really turns me on! Before we got together, she had sex with a close friend of mine, a guy. It hurt when she told me, but not to long after that, it really turned me on!!!
It has reached the extent where I would love to see and watch her have sex with another guy...no holding back...I want her to let go, and I want it to be really pleasurable for her. I know that I will be hurt, and jealous, but for some reason, when those feelings are mixed with being horny, it really turns me on! Even when she gives me a bj, and I'm taking long to come, I often visual her giving her exes a bj and it really makes me hard and come alot! It's exciting.. I even spoke to her about it and she finds it weird. She told me that she'd have sex with another guy while I watch if it's what I really wanted. We both love eachother..we are comfortable with each other..we trust each other.. Is it normal that I wanna see her have raunchy sex with another man and wanna feel the concoction of emotions of horny, hurt and jealously????

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  • ChaoticKitty
    13 years ago

    My fiance loves it when I have sex with other men, his father included!
    He has been too shy to watch in the past, but I told him that he has to watch next time or I won't do anything or tell him about it.

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    • Saleh47
      7 years ago

      I wish my girlfriend was a lot like you, I've asked her to sleep with someone else, because I told her I want a guy to fuck her senseless, and hoping she will love every minute of it, because the thought of it turns me on, she's flirted with a few guys in clubs but that's all, but she won't go any further than that, I have asked to go as far as she wants to go, but she don't understand why I want her to sleep with someone else, I've told her if she see's a guy she likes you have my permission to sleep with him, but she hasn't yet I'm still hoping she will.

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    • Itmakesmehard
      11 years ago

      I wish my girlfriend would fuck lots of men I'm turned on now just thinking about what your all saying, how do I tell her?? I love her little pussy :)

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  • darren3
    13 years ago

    Common fantasy. Normal!

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  • gymbunnie
    12 years ago

    YES it is totally normal. everyone has different fantasies, and if both people in a relationship are into it, then consider yourselves lucky to have found eachother, because thats not something you can find just like that. I am 24 and my boyfriend is 33. weve been together about 2 years. He began by telling me that he would watch porn with girls that looked like me getting banged by two guys, and then we randomly got into the "what if" conversation one day. after deciding that this was something we would both be open minded to, i brought in a close guy friend I work with (i know , its normally not smart to bring coworkers into the mix BUT this guy and i are exactly the same people, clicked from day 1 and are best friends at work.) Since we were such close friends (and YES i only and still only see him as a friend and i am madly truly in love with my boyfriend), I knew that this guy had had 3somes with a guy friend of his and a girl before too. I brought up the idea to my boyfriend that i had found someone, and we decided to all go to a club with some other friends one weekend. We conveniently got a hotel room as just the 3 of us, and when we left the party early, no one noticed. Well, we got back to the room and finally the fantasy became a reality. I am not kidding you when i say it was so fucking hot.... point of the story is that now our sex life is better than ever (and it never had a problem to begin with), and our relationship is stronger than ever. I am so glad we did this and so is he. is it something we plan on doing in the future again? absolutely, it just can get a little risky with stds so for now were sticking with my work friend especially since we all got tested after it happened. But yeah, you should definitely give it a try.... if you dont like it , dont do it again., but if you never try, you will never be able to see the potential levels that your sex life may have been able to get to.

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    • TT22
      10 years ago

      This is hot! Are you still banging with your coworker? Just curious.
      I would love to have threesomes with my GF too: mmf or mff.

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  • magic7
    3 years ago

    I’ve never been with a woman that was a virgin and they all fucked other guys and some went to bed with women. One girlfriend only fucked me with a strap on. I believe in being open minded but I also believe to never force anyone to do any type of sexual act they do not desire. My ex-wife was an open minded bisexual and knew right away I liked it in the ass. Her father was gay had a huge cock and quite good looking in need of a safe relationship. he was a businessman and he needed to hide the fact he liked young men. To make a long story short my wife watched me lose my virginity to her dad and now I walk around with a belly full of come and a sore ass almost on a constant basis.

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  • EROS1962
    6 years ago

    Whether men admit this or act on it is a different story.

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  • EROS1962
    6 years ago

    The fantasy is very well documented as normal and, in fact very common among males. Possessiveness and jealousy notwithstanding, a man's penchant for imagining an intimate in purely sexual situations is ribboned together with his attraction to pornography. Most men are aroused by porno, and most men are aroused by images of their girlfriends engaging in sex. Women, on the other hand, aren't as visual. They're more stimulated by feelings of comfort, dependability and resourcefulness in a man. So a typical woman would not enjoy seeing her boyfriend with another woman.

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  • Mersaphe
    9 years ago

    normal, you want to feel jealous when she's banging a hot guy

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  • Itmakesmehard
    11 years ago

    I wanna see you all fuck my girls little vagina I wish she new please help :)

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  • sunny_wantsome
    12 years ago

    The world is sure to end in 2012

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    • Bumholelover
      10 years ago

      2013 and still here

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  • aduusw
    12 years ago

    It's normal, also is normal to want her boyfriend to love in with you, and to castrate you and make you his and her slave... You won't be able to touch her anymore but you will still remain friends... The other man would fuck her and you... And you will be in charge of washing the dishes, cleaning the house, etc... Ol that while she is being fucked by him. :) totally normal

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  • An0nym0us9001
    13 years ago

    Not normal.

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    No it's not normal.

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