It is normal that a girl loves another one?

I'm a girl and one year ago I felt in love with a girl.
I adored her.suddenly she left me behind with lots of reasons which l made and she is married now and I'm still looking for an answer,why?
This feeling,is this NORMAL?

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81% Normal
Based on 62 votes (50 yes)
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  • tripw7

    It may be normal, but you need to get over the fact that she has gone onto another life. She is no longer available. You could probably feel better if you did discuss this with a professional. Good luck.

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    • breath

      I'm full of IF now.
      I feel guilty and this is hurt alot...

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      • BlackDragon

        Don't worry, you're not alone.
        Even though I didn't love the girl, it crushes me very deeply she doesn't talk to me anymore...

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  • EccentricWeird

    It's like that movie, 500 somethings of something, except I like this story better because it's much shorter.

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  • Riddler

    I am confused. So she left because you pushed her away and now you are upset? What exactly did you tell her? I think we need more context to give you a proper answer.

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    • breath

      I mixed up my love with my prejudice and this bothered her a lot.
      In fact she was different from me and my thoughts and I tried hard to change some of her attitudes and then ...

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      • Riddler

        So you were trying to change her? What were you trying to change? Was it bad habits like "Picking her nose" or were you trying to change something like her religion?

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        • breath

          Yes,I was
          Some bad habits like having a politic look to our relationship,doing exactly some thing which she knows that I hate,and these things

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