It is normal my husband to ignore me and not pay attention to me?

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Me and my husband have been married for 3 years.I am from a different country,far away from home and family...My husband has problem with his temper.He will argue with me all the time even in front public for the little things.When we are at home he will sit in front TV or his computer and If I ask for attention he will kiss me and tell me that he wants to play his game than he will go to bed and most of the time he will not say good night.I start thinking that I have problems or I am not good enough for him.I am not bad looking girl and I am 10 years younger than my husband.He is working security at bars and clubs and this is even bother me more because I have some friends who told me that my husband is flirting with girls when he is working.When i discuss this with him he is telling me that he is just being nice and doing his job.I found out that he is watching porn on his computer ....I start doing more things in bad to surprise him but it seem like he is always tired and stress out or sick...I do not understand what is going on.When we argue he ignore me and tell me that he is not doing anything wrong....but if you are on my place you will thing that something is definitely not right.He argue,ignore me,not want to do sex(always excuses ) The next day after argument he will invite me to do something and tell me that i need to stop act that way...:) I am not the one act that way??? Please advise me ??What is the problem? Why he ignore me....and then when he works he is all nice with the club girls and employs? I need to mention that he has being receive phone calls from a girls and if I ma there he tell them to talk latter and when I ask "who was?" the answer is: One of my friend ...I ask if he can call back so i can introduce my self on the phone and he said "NO" I will not let you talk with my friend(this particular girl)She stop calling him after that.He told me If I have ever meet her and you are around i will introduce you to her...So this is wrong....so wrong. Is this normal? Please advice me. Thanks!

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Based on 93 votes (13 yes)
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Comments ( 11 )
  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Have a nice divorce

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  • envy1984
    13 years ago

    Johny Bravo.Thanks!!!!! My husband and I are fine right now......your wishes may not come try ....:) Thanks any way....:) Good luck!

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    • Its_Called_Love
      12 years ago

      I'm sorry, but it really sounds like he is having an affair...

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  • Savmagic
    13 years ago

    Your husband sucks

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  • confusionfusion
    12 years ago

    ...ignoring...

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  • TyLee
    13 years ago

    No seriously you need to divorce this man his behavior is not acceptable!!!

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  • Sabaky
    13 years ago

    Divoce obviosly cheating on u the day he started this crap

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  • envy1984
    13 years ago

    mluker(59822).Thanks for your wishes :):):) I really apreciate for them.About my talking :I don't talk a lot even if I do!? I don't see any problem with that.If you didn't have pation to read the whole storry you shouldn't write any coment or say what you think about me...You don't know me :) How can you make conclusions????? I guess people are different and they are lot of mean people on this Earth??? Any way GOOD LUCK if you get to the end of this comment!!!

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  • mluker
    13 years ago

    I wasn't About to read all that shit u wrote. But just from seeing all u wrote- looks like u talk too much. So I can understand why he doesn't pay attention to you. Ha ha. Try talking less. No one likes a blabber mouth. Good luck. U prob can't help it. Lol

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    • envy1984
      12 years ago

      Ok, my reply to your coment is that the reason i wrote long story is because i was trying to be 100% explaintative and make sure i say everything in ditales. I was coming across befor a stories that peoplr need more info to be able to give advise so i deside to make sure i mention everything. But any way....people say: " If you do not know what to say do not say anything. You coment was worthless. Thanks anyway.

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  • HulaHoop
    13 years ago

    @ JohnyBravo- I was expecting some great advice at the end of that long story, but I must say, your coment has cracked me up!!!!! lol lol lol lol I have tears I'm laughing so hard!!!!!

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