It feels like there are two kinds of arousal

Basically, they're best summarized as "Fuck me" and "Fuck you"... Been feeling a lot more of the first, honestly.

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Based on 28 votes (24 yes)
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  • TerriAngel

    I think you phrased it in a strange way.
    There is physical and there is emotional.
    You can want to, and you do.
    Then there are those times you don't want to.
    But your body just reacts to things.

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    • Hydra75

      I presumed it as "Being banged" and "Banging others"
      Essentially, the role of submission.

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  • Yeah, sometimes I want to receive and others to give.
    I am better at giving.

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  • Dustyair

    Are you a code talker?

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    • No i have no idea what that is.

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    • Ummitsme

      Pocahontas kink?

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    • redrainbow22

      To OP:

      "Fuck me" would be feminine quality.

      "Fuck you" is a masculine quality.

      If you feel "Fuck you" then you're feeling more masculine.
      If "Fuck me" then more feminine.

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      • onaplane

        No lmao stop using gender roles. Come on, males can be submissive and still be masculine, and the other way around. It's just sex

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        • redrainbow22

          There are characteristics though, depending on how you're saying it.

          These arent "roles" btw. They're characteristics.

          When you say 'role' you make it sound like a duty. It's not a duty. It comes naturally what characteristics you have.

          No one is forcing you into a 'role' because characteristics are not roles.

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      • strangethingshappen

        I always think along the lines of fuck you kinda thinking and I'm a girl :3

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        • You and i would get along well, lol.

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          • strangethingshappen

            lol

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  • I could use a little more explanation before determining if it's normal or not! A bit more detail please!

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    • Basically i'm saying that I either want to be fucked or I want to fuck them. And what i'm asking is if that's normal.

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      • strangethingshappen

        Yeah how's that not normal.

        I would agree that there are 2 ways to think about it now that you have brought this to my attention.

        Typically females have the mind set of wanting to be fucked (if they're in the mood ofc), hence "Fuck me".

        Where as males tend to think Fuck you as they're always wanting to fuck anything with a pulse

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        • I dunno... I was thinking most people don't normally feel both...

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          • strangethingshappen

            That's what I said! Girls and guys think differently hence the fuck you and fuck me.

            I think if someone is bi sexual then they probably think both ways because being bi means you have both the feminine and masculine attributes.

            I feel a straight female would tend to think "Fuck me"

            A straight male would think "Fuck you" (as in wanting to fuck something)

            and a bi sexual male would have both thoughts of wanting to be fucked (Fuck me) and Fuck you because they like both sexes. Therefore have more femininity than a typical male as well as masculinity since they like both genders.

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  • Ellenna

    It's never occurred to me that this wasn't normal! In fact I've found it to be common during some individual sexual encounters and also the opposite in some relationships, both heterosexual and same sex.

    Nothing to worry about, have fun!

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  • Handyman

    Me is the best.
    Is the other option you or yourself?

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  • Yungteenboi23

    Hey bro since i was in elemetry ive been straight.i would watch Cartoons on tv and woukdnt pay attention to Anything else my lovely neighbor who was 10 or 12 was attraktive to me And since ive been touch all the way Down at that time which i didnt know what was happing at that Time because my friend was older than me he touch me and i felt good since then i felt that a boys touch would arouse me because i was sexually touch by him and he didnt know and neither did i i am secrectly sexzally aroused and would fuck

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  • EnglishLad

    Fuck me, fuck you, or fuck off.

    You can choose only one.

    Choose wisely.

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    • You username tells me to pick the latter...

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      • EnglishLad

        LOL! At least I admit it!

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        • You said choose wisely, and since i don't know what you're into, I only know that you are kinky and perverted, so i'm playing it safe.
          My safe word is 01 12 23. Lol, shitty pun.

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  • McBean

    Fuck me is the best. Especially when she whispers "Fuck me" in your ear.

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    • strangethingshappen

      What about Fuck Off! I think that's the best one

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  • Pumpurrnickel

    So dominance and submission? There is no question in this post, so I'll just say that it's normal to have both these "arousals" as you call them.

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    • I was asking if it was true that there are these two, and I was figuring if you didn't think that it was true, you'd put no. It's not so much domination or submission as it is the desire to give/do to them or the desire for them to do/give to you.

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