It feels like there are two kinds of arousal
Basically, they're best summarized as "Fuck me" and "Fuck you"... Been feeling a lot more of the first, honestly.
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Basically, they're best summarized as "Fuck me" and "Fuck you"... Been feeling a lot more of the first, honestly.
I think you phrased it in a strange way.
There is physical and there is emotional.
You can want to, and you do.
Then there are those times you don't want to.
But your body just reacts to things.
Yeah, sometimes I want to receive and others to give.
I am better at giving.
To OP:
"Fuck me" would be feminine quality.
"Fuck you" is a masculine quality.
If you feel "Fuck you" then you're feeling more masculine.
If "Fuck me" then more feminine.
No lmao stop using gender roles. Come on, males can be submissive and still be masculine, and the other way around. It's just sex
There are characteristics though, depending on how you're saying it.
These arent "roles" btw. They're characteristics.
When you say 'role' you make it sound like a duty. It's not a duty. It comes naturally what characteristics you have.
No one is forcing you into a 'role' because characteristics are not roles.
I always think along the lines of fuck you kinda thinking and I'm a girl :3
I could use a little more explanation before determining if it's normal or not! A bit more detail please!
Basically i'm saying that I either want to be fucked or I want to fuck them. And what i'm asking is if that's normal.
Yeah how's that not normal.
I would agree that there are 2 ways to think about it now that you have brought this to my attention.
Typically females have the mind set of wanting to be fucked (if they're in the mood ofc), hence "Fuck me".
Where as males tend to think Fuck you as they're always wanting to fuck anything with a pulse
That's what I said! Girls and guys think differently hence the fuck you and fuck me.
I think if someone is bi sexual then they probably think both ways because being bi means you have both the feminine and masculine attributes.
I feel a straight female would tend to think "Fuck me"
A straight male would think "Fuck you" (as in wanting to fuck something)
and a bi sexual male would have both thoughts of wanting to be fucked (Fuck me) and Fuck you because they like both sexes. Therefore have more femininity than a typical male as well as masculinity since they like both genders.
It's never occurred to me that this wasn't normal! In fact I've found it to be common during some individual sexual encounters and also the opposite in some relationships, both heterosexual and same sex.
Nothing to worry about, have fun!
Hey bro since i was in elemetry ive been straight.i would watch Cartoons on tv and woukdnt pay attention to Anything else my lovely neighbor who was 10 or 12 was attraktive to me And since ive been touch all the way Down at that time which i didnt know what was happing at that Time because my friend was older than me he touch me and i felt good since then i felt that a boys touch would arouse me because i was sexually touch by him and he didnt know and neither did i i am secrectly sexzally aroused and would fuck
Fuck me is the best. Especially when she whispers "Fuck me" in your ear.
So dominance and submission? There is no question in this post, so I'll just say that it's normal to have both these "arousals" as you call them.