It’s normal for my bf to jackoff using me when im sleeping?

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a few nights ago something so strange happened that I do not have anyone to talk about. I was asleep when I suddenly felt something at the ass. I still slept because I knew he was my boyfriend who touched me. He usually does this even when he is asleep, so I did not notice. But then I felt a sharp pain, which awakened me from sleep, but I did not let him know that I was awake. I was shocked when I realized that my clothes were almost down and he was trying to get a finger in my ass. I continued to pretend to be asleep, just to see what he want to do . And the biggest shock was when I realized he was jerking off. It is true that it s a month since I had not had any sexual intercourse, but he did not ask for it and if he did, I would not be refused. Is it normal what he did? I feel used and I'm very upset, I feel raped because he did it without my permission.

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  • SwickDinging
    5 years ago

    My husband sometimes wakes me up doing stuff like this. However we have shared a bed for many years and this is one of the ways he initiates sex. If I don't want it I just say no and kick him off me and go back to sleep. Usually though I do want it and it turns me on. We have an understanding.

    It sounds like this hasn't been established with you and your partner, and you seem upset. So no, this is not normal at all. You should confront him about this and make it very clear that it's not acceptable. And if he does it again after you've told him... I advise a sharp kick in the dick followed by you getting out of the house, followed by you phoning the police and reporting him for sexual assault.

    Don't take any shit OP. Good luck x

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    • Dadai
      5 years ago

      but I do not know how to tell him. He is very shy. Or so he wants to look. I think each of us has a more "dark" part of the mind. The problem is that for me he hides that part. Another problem is that I do not think he did it just because she felt the need to release herself. I know him for 4 years and I can say that's actually more a fantasy. Anyway, I still feel angry and I do not know how to tell him. If I will tell him, he will feel very embarrassed. Any advice? I almost forgot, thanks for the previous advice!

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      • RoseIsabella
        5 years ago

        The proper response to someone trying to finger your asshole while you are asleep is to scream, smack that person, and tell him to get the fuck off of you. Shy or not, what he was doing is a form of sexual assault. Who cares about the feelings of a person who would try to bugger you in your sleep!

        He sounds like a bigger piece of shit than the hearty deposit I flushed down the pipes this morning! If anything a person like him deserves to be shamed, and put in his place. A sleeping person cannot give consent!

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        • Dadai
          5 years ago

          yes, Rose, you're right. But it's not that simple because we've been together for four years. I know it's a kind of sexual assault. He did not have my agreement. He even tried to force me, but then he said he joked

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          • SwickDinging
            5 years ago

            If you've been together for that long then you should be able to tell him. It's embarrassing for him because he shouldn't be doing it. If you really feel like it's not malicious and you don't want to be too aggressive you could always bring it up in a light hearted way. Or just roll over when he's doing it and look at him. Surely he must know on some level that you are awake? I don't think anyone would think they could shove something up your arse without it waking you up.

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          • RoseIsabella
            5 years ago

            Tell him that it's not funny.

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    Dump his crazy ass!

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  • trexagireve
    5 years ago

    Just wait for him to sleep and piss in his mouth and you are even!!

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  • TerriAngel
    5 years ago

    Stop pretending.
    Turn over and suck that dick!
    Some guys like the idea of doing things while you're asleep.
    Then you slowly awake and enjoy it.
    Try sucking his dick to wake him up.
    Guys love it.
    It's not forced either you P.C. twat.
    You're in a relationship.

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  • nikkiclaire
    5 years ago

    Return the favor tonight.

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    • RoseIsabella
      5 years ago

      That's actually a good idea! I bet he wouldn't like it.

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    • Dadai
      5 years ago

      God, I laughed so hard to this comment 🤣🤣

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      • RoseIsabella
        5 years ago

        Use a carrot on him tonight!

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        • nikkiclaire
          5 years ago

          She should insert a candle up his ass , light it and leave him for good. It's a nice send off 🤓👊

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          • Dadai
            5 years ago

            Crazy girls 😂😂🙈 thanks for ideas 💡

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