It’s difficult to break things off with someone

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it’s been almost 2 years since we started dating and i no longer feel the same way as them. Thinking of it, it seems easy to just break up, i tell them i don’t like them anymore and they understand and then boom we’re over. But i just can’t seem to gather up any courage to do it. I don’t want to salvage our relationship anymore, its basically a lost cause, i think. How do i just,, do it? they’re in a different state right now and breaking things off in person would be impossible since none of us have the money for transportation and spending money just to see each other and i break up with them would be a waste.

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  • --
    3 years ago

    Doesn't really seem like there is much of a relationship there.

    Just send em a text.

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  • litelander8
    3 years ago

    You don’t even see this person regularly? Sounds easy. Maybe recommending that y’all go on a “break” first. And then follow through.

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  • Unknown_player
    3 years ago

    Just be honest with how you feel dude you're holding up the line for their future soul mate

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  • MrToxic
    3 years ago

    Breakups suck. Ultimately they have to happen sometimes. Whatever method you need to use to end the relationship, do so. Just know, by phone call, text or through another person will reflect poorly on you. The healthiest method is to do so in person. When they cry and so forth you simply have to accept it. Part of getting into a relationship means accepting the fact that such an event may have to transpire someday.

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  • Kool_owl
    3 years ago

    Just email them that you no longer have romantic feeling for them and that you feel the need to move on with you're life .
    Are you willing to still be just friends or do you just not want to talk to them at all ?
    If you still want to be friends with them but not in a romantic way then just say that .

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  • ellnell
    3 years ago

    Take it on a phone call or a video call.

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