Issues with my best friend

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Hi ...
I recently have many fights with my best friend, after we used to be so closely friends and having many laughs together.

He recently doesn't respect me and points bad at me, I tried to know why he's doing this but I couldn't find out... so I insult him back and then we end up in a fight! , After 4 or 5 days he gets back and says he's sorry but again we end up in a fight 2 days later ...

Though, he's my best friend and he also thins I'm his best friend, but seems that best friends love to fight much :D

now I need your opinions or helpful suggestions so I get him back to the way he was and we used to have much fun and very very closely friendship and ending these damn fights .. because everytime we fight, I feel that's it, my friendship with him is over
Help please to avoid this tragedy :(

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  • Davis6
    14 years ago

    Thanks , He again buzzed me on chat last night, but it was just a buzz, then I set a status messenger and then he saw it and send the "laughing" icon, because I wrote : F**k all my friends. of course that was not true, but i was mentioning him somehow. what do you think people ?

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  • BigAl
    14 years ago

    id say thats normal cuz jus as alaxett(my best friend) says we've fought plenty of times during high school to the point we even stopped being friends for a bit but got back together an hung out again like best buddies. we r still best friends, like brothers, and we rarely fight that bad now. id say that arguements jus makes friendships stronger. so stick w/ your buddy cuz friends r common but best friends r rare. oh an if things get bad then jus have a sit down w/ your friend an talk things thru.

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  • ComboBreaker
    14 years ago

    LOL Dont worry. What ever made you friends should keep you friends unless some one dose something unspeakable. Me and my friends make fun of each other all the time. Kicking each other, hitting, calling each other names. Its the arguments that make friendship stronger. You can get in fights and still be friends. Its you're way (like many) to show how much you care.

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  • xino00
    14 years ago

    you are not basically best friends.
    cuz best friends wouldn't act like this all the time.

    I used to do this back at school, ones who i call friends, argue, end up not being friends, next time friends, etc

    But best friends i have we don't fight, sure i may get disappointed by their decisions or action, but we don't end up to the point we'll say we are not friends.

    I suggest you look for a better friend. If you keep doing this, then it shows you two are not really friends, you just know each other.

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    • Alaxett
      14 years ago

      Have you ever fight with your best friend to the point that two of you almost lost the closest alliance that mean so much to you? I don't think anyone would understand the weight of our situation, we're nothing without each other. That was just four short year of high school, and we grow out of it (only about one year of dispute). We been still hangout for, like, 17 years. Imagine the relation between US and Japan, before and after the World War II.

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  • Alaxett
    14 years ago

    Awesome, man... my best friend and I used to do that, back in high school. But now we seldom do that, and when we really do agrue about something, it was a very heat battle. Lol... good old time.

    Here's what I suggest, I would recommend go find some help from other people, sure as someone who is specialize in heal relationship, to settle thing down between two of you, if your best friend is care enough to save this friendship. That's what we did, we didn't know why we was fight about back in high school.

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  • Davis6
    14 years ago

    Oh btw , I like to add that when he does that with me , I really get mad because I can't stand the idea that he does that with a best friend and I leave him for like 3 or 4 days, but like I said he comes back and says I'm sorry, then again the fights continue to happen ... and I don't want to lose him in the same time.

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