Isn to be obssessed with your best friend ( not in love)?

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I am a girl. and my best friend is a girl. And I love her to death but like as a best friend. But i just can't get over her. Like I would do anything in the world for her and I just can't get over the fact that we'r are best friends and i think about her all the time. If she doesn't text me I get so restless. And if she doesn't come over or if she can't hang out or if she cancels our plans, it gets me so upset that I seriously cry. The last time I cried because she said she thinks its weird to hug like in the middle of campus while when we say bye. And I just can't get over the fact that she's my best friend and that I love her so much. I just always want to hang out with her and talk to her. Is this normal? and I am completely straight and so is she. I have no like sexual feelings for her. I only date guys i'm into guys not girls. but it's like she's my god or something why do I do this?

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  • alv1592
    13 years ago

    that's great that you have a friend you love so much. but don't act too desperate for her attention because that might push her away. if she doesn't text back right away or if she cancels plans, she probably has other things going on. if she's really your best friend, i'm sure she loves you as much as you love her. just remember that :)

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    • sononormal123
      13 years ago

      thanks you are absolutely right i guess i've lost a lot of friends in life bc they changed or turned out to be fake . so maybe thats why i feel the need to always be with her to make sure she loves me and she wont leave me.

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  • Savmagic
    13 years ago

    You totally want her

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  • sparrowfeed
    13 years ago

    ACK.

    sounds like one of my friends.. one whom I unfortunately had to abandon.

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  • cammers
    13 years ago

    thats how my best friend is with me ugh its annoying at times especialy when she gets the same stuff as me at first i didn't mind but after awhile it wares on my nerves i just wanna tell her to be her own person sometimes it makes me wonder if she would die if she didn't have me the way she acts

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    • sononormal123
      13 years ago

      I definitly do not want to be like her or get the same stuff as were.. we are definitly two differnt people and have different views on everything i just always want to spend time with her and get insecure if we dont. maybe your best friend just really looks up to you a lot and depends on you a lot. I would die if i didnt have my best friend. I mean i would still be living but it would take a long long long time for me to be anything close to normal or happy.

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  • mini
    13 years ago

    I feel the same way about my friend and am straight, relax it's not just u :)

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  • lalas
    13 years ago

    I hate girls like that , there sometimes just so rude ugh .

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  • crazykittens
    13 years ago

    Attention.

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    It sounds like you crave her attention. I'd try and reel it in, if I were you. It can sometimes get quite wearisome to deal with people who want more of you than you are offering. The last thing you'd want to do is drive her away.

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