Isn that my boyfriend lets other girls flirt with him?

So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and a half, he went on a family vacation where him and a ton of family friends go to the same hotel. He tells me that a few girls majorly flirt with him and I've seen a few suspicious texts since he got back. He doesn't seem to gave a problem with it and doesn't see a need to tell them he's taken :/ today he was also giving a ton of girls free piggy back rides at school and refused to give me one... I love him and this is only recent... Help!

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  • RoseIsabella

    He's an inconsiderate jerk. Dump him like he great heaping poo that he is.

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  • chained_rage

    I could never date another person who refuses to give me piggy back rides. That's where I draw the line

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  • modernism

    It's good that he at least told you about the girls that were flirting but the texts and him not telling them he's taken is a bad sign. He's inconsiderate and is most likely cheating.

    The fact that he's treating other girls better than you doesn't show commitment and you should consider breaking up with him. Talk to him about when you typed here, and if he doesn't seem to care, then he's not worth it. You deserve a guy who going to want to be around you rather than other girls.

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  • stanie

    Typically he's being a jerk and cares about himself.I've seen married people flirt with others .

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  • VinnyB

    I suspect the real problem here might be that you feel he is giving away attention to other people that, as his gf, rightly belongs to you. Would you have even thought of getting a piggy back ride if you didn't see him giving them to other people, or did you see him giving them and think, "that's my man, if anyone is gonna get a piggy back ride from him, it's gonna be me!"

    A lot of times people don't like to put it that was because they think it sounds selfish, but it is not. You are his gf, and you deserve his attention and affection, especially when you are together. For him to give it to others and ignore you is just wrong.

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  • donttellanyonemyname

    Plain and simple... He doesn't like you anymore. I know that sounds rude and blunt, but that's the sign of a guy that's already cheated on you and feels no need to be with you anymore. Break it off before you find out the hard way. I know what the signs are. I'm a guy. No I don't cheat. I've seen it all my life by several different guys. The idea of cheating whether it's a guy or a girl infuriates me. DUMP HIS ASS!!! It's gonna hurt for a bit but I'm 100% certain you'll get over it.

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