Isn't it abnormal to have my bf freak me a girl out about the furture?

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My boyfriend is very clingy and obsessive! The first day we met he said he loved me @ the end! Then 3 and 1/2 weeks later he started saying we were going to get married and have children the first one named Cloud McCafferey! And then if I wanted to go anywhere I wasn't ever going by myself if I was going to go somewhere it would be with him! He sounds controlling, clingy, and obsessive! And there was other stuff mentioned but it's kinda personal about sexual things.... Anyways if anyone has any opinions on any of this please comment them and tell me if this shit is normal or not!

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    I'm with dca94, RUN! Run very fast and very far and NEVER, EVER talk to that guy again.
    He's going to be very hard to get rid of, he will probably make your life a living hell for a while, so don't encourage him and don't give him any idea that he has the slightest chance with you. I bet he even cries when you break up with him.

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  • Crow
    8 years ago

    Run.

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  • Tealights
    8 years ago

    He's abusive, and what you're noticing are the very early signs of his abusive tendencies. You got to end the relationship now or very soon.

    Google search: Caring Unlimited Red Flags. Click the first link. The whole list actually goes in order of what you'll see first as the relationship gradually progress. He may not be everything on the list, but even the smallest amount is bad.

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  • Steve2
    8 years ago

    Leave this creepy, rapey man before he kills you and makes a couch out of your skin.

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  • dca94
    8 years ago

    Run as fast as you can away from this psychopath.

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  • Kittykatz3663
    8 years ago

    Tell him you are going to one country except he can't cone with you and then move to a different town and keep the town name hush-hush

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  • Nasty_Cole
    8 years ago

    While it may not be normal you should stay with anyone who is willing to put up with all your shortcomings...

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  • mystery7
    8 years ago

    Normal if he's clingy and obsessive

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