Isn right or wrong vibes?

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Im having a difficult time when around people, usually I can feel the vibes of another people if they don't like me, or are sad. Mostly I'm feeling this way around people who Im not too sure if they actually like me as friends, it seems to me when I'm around them that they put on this show, and it seems fake but thats the vibe I pick up, but apparently its not true....because–

Once I had confronted my friend and asked them, and had a convo about how I felt but to my surprise the person actually cared, and didn't know that I felt as if they didn't like me at all, wasn't really the response I was looking for.

Does anyone feel like this?

Do your vibes or feeling get in the way or distorting your view on people that might not be true?

I don't have much friends and it seems like this is starting to damage them, and me as well!

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  • Freedom_
    8 years ago

    I get that with some people, but I've gotten to the point where I don't really care if they like me or not, mostly this one particular person, I just get the feeling she's unsure about me (or maybe we just both have trust issues). She likes me enough to invite me to hang out and I can certainly use the social interaction so I make the best of it and try not to think negatively of the situation. Maybe I'm wrong, maybe we'll become close enough to talk about it one day or maybe those feelings will just dissipate and not matter at all one day. Point is, don't worry about it.

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  • reminiscent
    8 years ago

    it kinda sounds like you are unsure of yourself and projecting that feeling. like you said you feel that way around people you arnt sure of. so standing on shaky ground. It has nothing to do with other people it has to do with you and your insecurities.

    no i am a confident person so i dont feel this way.

    i have however felt intuition about people....like a gut feeling. I met someone once and was like yeah this is a good person i will make sure we are friends. turned out my gut feeling about them was right and they made a great friend.

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