Isitnormal that i cant let him go

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I don't know weather some one have ever felt this way before if any please mi what to i do,I'm a 23 old years girl I was in a relationship with this guy which we work together we hooked off so much so that I wonder what could possibly come between us. After spending like 3months together,I was then trasnfered to another city it was so hurtful that we're parting we both cried about it,one night he called mi mid night and told mi that we should let go of the relationship becouse of the distance. I cried my heart aches about but couldn't do anything about it.its like a month now I've not yet reported to my other place of work so I still see him when ever I go to the office and can't stop crying about,I cried every night since then is it normal.how can I get rid of him please

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  • ang
    12 years ago

    Girfriend. Take it from a very attractive woman who has had many guys never left me. If you want him to want to 1) stop the crying, 2) buy a fake engagement ring to wear the next time you see him; 3) Give him a big smile and a hug (YOU FAKE IT GIRL IT WORKS) 4) After he asks how you're doing jump up and down one time in a girly way, raise your eyebrows, look up to the ceiling for an instance in ectasy, look immediately back at him 5) hold out your hand and display the ring and then 6) in a happy, over-excited tone, with huge grin, exclaim "OMG I am getting married. I never thought I'd get over you and then I met this guy and well, it all happened so fast, lastly 7) give him your most dazzling smile and say, "You will come to my wedding won't you?"

    Girlfriend, he will anguish in torment for between 2 day to 2 weeks (some guys have more pride). Then he will call and say he really needs to talk to you. You work it harder. Tell him you are pretty busy planning the wedding, but you could meet next week.

    Play it all the way out to the end when your transferred mail him a fake wedding invite with a gorgeous picture of you and some hot stud in a passionate embrace.

    He will quit his job, move to your city, come to your door with ring in hand and beg you to marry him and not that guy.

    yOU TURNED HIM OFF WITH BEING OBESSIVELY IN LOVE WITH HIM IN THE FIRST PLACE. HEY, I'VE BEEN THERE 38 YEARS AGO. I WAS IN THE ARMY I HUNG WITH THE BOYS AND WAS A STOCKBROKER AND HUNG WITH THE MEN. I KNOW HOW THEIR IDIOTIC BRAINS WORK. LOVE 'EM TOO MUCH AND IT SCARES THEM OFF. PLUS THEY LIKE A CHALLENGE. I HAD ONE LIKE YOUR GUY. I KISSED ANOTHER GUY RIGHT IN FRONT OF HIM AND 3 DAYS LATER HE PROPOSED. THESE MEN ARE LITTLE BOYS THEY WANT WHAT THEY THINK THEY CAN'T GET AND DONT WANT WHAT THEY HAVE BECAUSE THEY ALWAYS ARE EGOTISTICALLY THINKING THEY CAN DO BETTER.

    AFTER 9 YEARS OF BEING WITH MY JERK I CURSED THE DAY I MARRIED HIM. AND DON'T CONFUSE LOVE, INFATUATION AND LUST.

    SO HE CRIED, BIG DEAL. A MAN IN LOVE WILL FOLLOW YOU TO CHINA -- BUT ONLY IF BELIEVES HE;S GOnna lose ya to another man.

    If he does come back tell him you really love this other guy and am very sorry. CRUSH HIM NOW and BE DONE WITH HIM. IF YOU MARRY HIM HE'LL EVENTUALLY CRUSH YOU, LEAVING YOU WITH 2 KIDS TO SUPPORT AND FINANCIAL RUIN.

    DON'T EVER CRY IN FRONT OF A GUY THEY HATE THAT IT MAKES THEM UNCOMFORTABLE AND IS A TOTAL TURN OFF. HONEST TO GOD THEY ONLY ADORE THE BITCHES WHO TREAT THEM BAD.

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    • redeyes
      12 years ago

      why you tell lies shes vunerable she might be a overweight hippo

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  • ThatsWhatWeDeerDo
    12 years ago

    My advice: Don't listen to Ang... at all.. that was stupid advice

    I went from a guy HATING me, to now we're engaged..... who do you think has better advice?

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  • Twarrior
    12 years ago

    Damm girl he must of tore your box up good.

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  • gamergirl69
    12 years ago

    Awww, this is very sad :(

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    "even though i try i can't let go. something in your heart captures my soul. and every night i see you in my dreams. you're all i know, i can't let go."

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