Isi t nrmal to feel better after gaining weight?

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I use to be relatively slim last year , but i was always shy and self conscoius . Somehow it seems like after gaining 40 pounds and not being average anymore , i finally like the way i look. I find myself dressing to shock most of the time, low rise jeans, tighish shirt that show at least my love handles.
But here s why i feel bad , it is so out of the box and not mainstream to have a belly that , i lost my boyfriend, people think im slutty , just because i like to show off my new found body.

Why is it okay for a skinny with big breasts to show off and not for a good looking woman with a nice belly to show it off?

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Based on 53 votes (35 yes)
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  • kiva123
    12 years ago

    Okay I'm glad your happy but um I'm sure most guys would want to see boobs rather than a belly

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  • icanhascheezburger
    12 years ago

    I think if you're comfortable with your body and enjoy the way you look, forget about what everyone else says. If your boyfriend really loved you then he would have stay no matter what you looked like.
    Besides everyone has different ideas of what is attractive. Kudos to you and keep doing what you're doing and if you got it, flaunt it.

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  • sandra2
    12 years ago

    updates . im now still gaining weight. I know its before xmas but yeah . i have managed to go up another 6 inches. im happy at 45 inches . i still get asked if im pregnant. i dont mind it tho . and yeah for holiday season i might still grow a bit . but yeah ill try my best to stay under 55 inches i dont wqant to look overdue, im happy with being pregnant looking.

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  • Lula
    12 years ago

    I really do not think belly should be seen when wearing clothes, thin or fat.

    If you are happy, then go for it
    Be careful not to gain to much
    Live with this weight for a while and see if you like it

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  • Pen-island
    12 years ago

    Well whatever makes you happy.

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  • Pen-island
    12 years ago

    I do not agree with your decisions.

    Hereby, I

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  • firefly88
    12 years ago

    Wht? Because a belly is a sign of poor health. Means poor digestion. It's not sexy so please do the world a favor and cover that gross belly

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  • sandra2
    12 years ago

    well my belly isnt that big its about 39 inches so its really not that big.
    but yeah i just got back from the mall to get new shirts and i got asked 3 times if i was pregnant by those bitches that try to sell me bigger clothes

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  • iSneezeMoneyy
    12 years ago

    If you have a big belly then that's gross and no one wants to see that, sorry but it's true.

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    • sandra2
      12 years ago

      thats just rude

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  • Tehboss
    12 years ago

    dear miss fatass none and i mean NO ONE wants to see your lard handles. you may love them has a pig loves it's bacon but it's not ok to torture people in seeing you =( now put your clothes back on! And if you really want to show off your grease do it in the privateness of the interwebs and open a softcore fatass site =D

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    • sandra2
      12 years ago

      good for you t have an opinion but i care more about being happy then about being judged i hink i came to peace with it and i just enjoy not sucking it in and just letting my belly out!

      so if you see a gurl like me walking somewhere just think its just normal to be proud of what you look like ... nobody should ever had to suck it in in front of anybody .

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      • Tehboss
        12 years ago

        so someone should be proud of being unhealthy and not actually wanting to improve their condition? interesting....

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  • sandra2
    12 years ago

    yeah im comfortable with it but . i mean , i just read on this website that most guys hates muffintops and also hates a belly that bulges out of a shirt

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    • Budgiebite
      12 years ago

      guys here are mostly teenage boys and mindless young men. go where the friendly FA are.

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