Is what i want to do to men sexually normal?

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Okay, well I am biologically female. And I usually am okay with identifying as female, but that's not the issue here. Sexually speaking I tend to identify as asexual, and that fits me most of the time. But if I were given the chance to have sex with a relatively attractive guy, I feel as though the way I would have sex with him isn't normal.

You see.... In the event of sex, I am heterosexual, I would prefer to have it with a guy.... But the way I would have sex with him is.... NOT??? I find myself wanting to be the one doing the penetrating? Almost me being the guy?? Oh god this is embarrassing just thinking about it, but I sincerely want to know if this is normal or not.

I have a feeling it isn't, but what are your thoughts on this?

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  • SuperCoolDude222
    9 years ago

    Okay, just stop taking LSD and relax...

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    I imagine you won't have too many problems finding a guy to do that with you as long as you let him do you, too.

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  • Darkoil
    9 years ago

    If you are attractive I would let you bum me as long as we could also have sex the regular way. That's not a proposition by the way.

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  • Crazybeast
    8 years ago

    See about a strap on dildo n find a guy friend n ask him if he wouldn't mind you fuck hi in the ass with the strap on.

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  • ghost0309
    9 years ago

    being*

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  • ghost0309
    9 years ago

    Maybe, instead of actually penetrating him, try just bring on top and imagining you are, or ask if you can hump his leg or something. I did that with a woman once... It was kind of hot, lol!

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  • ghost0309
    9 years ago

    I wondered if I was normal for feeling this way my whole life, too! I ended up finally identifying as lesbian. But I've also since discovered, lesbian or not, the clitorus is equivalent to a man's penis, and the outer part of the vagina is equivilent to a man's balls. So the feeling of wanting to penetrate someone comes from the clitorus, which is actually perfectly normal, if you think of the equivalency...

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  • mothzi
    9 years ago

    Don't worry about it, explore your feelings and do what you want.

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  • VirgilManly
    9 years ago

    Call me.
    ; b

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  • wistfulmaiden
    9 years ago

    Lots of guys like anal sex and being do I aged, find yourself one of those .

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  • laxman209
    9 years ago

    It's something that's fairly active with lesbian sex. Doing it to a straight man is unlikely to happen, with exceptions of bisexual, and the odd man who likes anal without sexual attractions to other men.

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  • pixie44
    9 years ago

    There are some couples who do that.. idk if that's normal or not but i don't think that's asexual.
    Maybe you just like to be dominant and in control? idk

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