Is what i enjoy about sex normal

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I am in an open relationship. As two bi females my partner and I enjoy sex with a male friend of ours. That's not what my question is about though.

While I enjoy physical sex I really love holding her while she is having it. I love every thing about watching her enjoy herself. The little sounds she makes are adorable, her expressions, the way she grasps my hand tight when she is feeling good. I love the micro expressions on her face and how she reaches for me as she climaxes. I also love how she holds me and looks after me when it's my turn to be with our male friend.

Is it normal to love this more than the sex itself? I feel kinda perverted liking it.

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  • Bailey_Rose
    6 years ago

    This is not perverted at all! This is absolutely awesome! That fact that you two can enjoy each other while at the same time enjoy someone else is amazing! As long as you two are happy, keep on doing what you're doing! In all honesty, I wish I could see this unfold with my own eyes!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Well the only way for that, would be if you were the one helping, as we don't really like just being watched. But thank you for the kind words.

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  • Boojum
    6 years ago

    That's really sweet, and you sound like a lovely person.

    There's absolutely nothing wrong with getting pleasure from seeing someone you care about receiving pleasure. It sounds like you're in have a very positive, supportive relationship. Long may it continue.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Thank you. I guess I felt pervey because I enjoy what she feels more than the sex itself.

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  • McBean
    6 years ago

    When society says it is perverted, and your heart says it's normal, you are doing something right.

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  • nikkiclaire
    6 years ago

    Omg. If I didn't know better I'd say I wrote this. That is the sweetest thing and while it's not normal, cause most people don't have relations like that, it's normal you love seeing your gf enjoy herself. I do too. It's amazing.

    We used to do that before we were a couple and I think eventually we will incorporate a man again. We have but not consistantly. For now we are working on each other.

    But I don't see how anyone could say it's pervert stuff.

    Yay!!

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